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Would a girl want a guy like me?

673 views 17 replies 15 participants last post by  Kanova  
#1 ·
Would a girl want a guy like me?
I'm 26 years old, I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. I'm about 5'7" feet tall. I have dirty blond longish curly hair. I'm around 158 pounds.
I tend to be very shy around people till I get to know them, but once I get to know them I start to open up a lot more and become more myself around as long as I feel accepted for who I am, if I start to feel judged or unaccepted I close myself off again.
I'm a Christian, I have relationship based faith i...n God and not one based on rules.
I'm in school going for computer science(programming). I'm mostly a indoor person so I tend to play video games, watch anime, play Magic: The Gathering and listen to music (Mostly different types of metal). So basically what you'd expect from a geek, though I would be willing to try some more stuff if it was with a girl I liked.
I do have some other interests like psychology, culture, mythology, science, sci-fi science like string theory, parallel universes. Really, I do have a lot of interests I just choose to take focus on God, programming, video games and anime.
I tend to like staying in smaller groups without too much noise. In a more relaxed setting so it makes talking to other easier. I don't really have a problem with things being loud, but just not when I'm trying to get to know someone. I'm the type of guy that only needs a few friends to be happy, but at the same time I need to feel connected to people I'm with or I'll start getting lonely.
White/Blue: http://www.colorcode.com/about/
ISFP - http://www.personalitypage.com/ISFP.html
ISFJ - http://www.personalitypage.com/ISFJ.html
Can't really say that I much faith that I'll find someone. I mean I've been looking for a girlfriend for 10 years, and I've still never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl yet. My friends aren't any help in helping me find someone. I can't even say that I have any friends that are girls. On the few times I tried to get anywhere with a girl, it was always met with rejection, including just friends with girl or just hanging out with her.
 
#11 ·
Seriously, this is the third time you've posted this exact thread in the past so many months. Pretty soon I will have your profile memorised. For the love of god dude, do yourself a favour and stop.
 
#12 ·
So many to choose from, but here's a few for convenience:

http://www.socialanxietysupport.com...t.com/forum/f40/would-a-girl-want-to-marry-a-guy-like-me-976665/#post1072058833

http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f26/why-cant-i-get-a-girlfriend-86682/#post1321106

http://www.socialanxietysupport.com...um/f40/is-it-possible-for-a-introverted-guy-like-me-ever-462089/#post1064262761

http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f40/still-cant-find-a-girlfriend-1131306/#post1074378482

Seriously OP - you've been posting in this way for a few years now. Have you had any progress at all? I looked through the 150+ threads you've created about yourself and I have to say, your obsessiveness is a little concerning.

Are you seeing a therapist?
 
#15 ·
You dont have anything wrong so, why not ?

Maybe its just a matter of how you approach them or to whom you approach. You cant approach a s-lutty girl with your interests. They dont want to have a talk about moral values, C code, games nor how the webster dictionary defines something. They just want trivial talks like "You know, I went to this party ,,," .. and a conversation full of words like "party" . "alcohol", "wasted", "a-ss", "shaking", and how long is tour d**k.

But you are kinda nerd, you can meet hot chicks that get interested. Also, try to be kinda funny and imprudent.

For example, you like mythology, so you engage in a conversation that gives you a chance to tell her that she reminds you to some mythological godess and ask her if she knows her and if she dont you make a little explanation but before throw some random and imprudent joke ..

something like this:

You : We'll she is regarded for having ... (pause a little bit so she asks you)
Her: Having?
You: Having .. having the most cozy a-ss in history (make a two second pause)
You: hahahahahahahahahaha, just kidding! (long laugh and clarification so she does not take it as an offense) . She's actually REAL_DEFINITION_OF_GODESS_HERE
She: hahaha

Girls kinda like that type of talk when it doesnt come from a pervert. Its like you are respectful but you are not affraid to make jokes like that. Of course dont do this with a girl you just met, wait at least 1 week haha.

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