I am going to guess that you are generally pretty unassertive. Would that be right? There could be other things going on, but this seems to be a factor in poor treatment and being neglected or overlooked.

 

I know how you feel, although some girls have liked me but I don't like them. So I end up miserable because the ones I like just say to me "you're my friend" and we are not even that close

 

Why don't girls like me?
I don't know, it just seems like every time I like a girl something wrong, also it seems like every time I like a girl she's just using me.

It's fine to be excited about meeting a new person, but if you come off as being very easy to please then you will become an easy target for manipulation. And if someone feels you can be easily manipulated, they won't respect you--even though they may still like you. You can tell if you are falling into this trap when you do things just because someone shows affection towards you.

 

They tend to be pickier, A) because they can be, and B) they don't want to get stuck with a kid from a failed relationship with the wrong kind of person.

Have to work on improving yourself, learning about human nature, dating and relationships, how to maximize your appearance & social skills, how to project confidence & be fun & funny. And go through a lot of people to find ones that actually do like you.

Remember to not get your hopes up for any one person without good reason.

 

I apologize if I'm too assumptions. I'm not stud either but the vibe I get from you is you have very low self-esteem, needy, and too unassertive. You sound desperate as well which turns off a lot of girls. Have you read No Mr.Nice guy by Dr.Glover? Seems like it'd fit you well.

 

Girls don't owe you anything, I don't like random guys unless they look good. So work on looking better and acting more confident.

 

That sounds kind of shallow. Something that you find to be good looking may seem repulsive to someone else and the other way around. Should he do a face surgery to look better for certain girls? What he can do is search for the girls that like him as he already looks. He may only try to make small changes like doing a bit of exercises to lose some weight if he has a problem in that department, dress better, etc. No miracles though.

As for being confident, that only comes through getting positive validations and having a better mindset. That is very hard even with a lot of therapy.

Are you confident? What do you think of your own looks? I am a bit curious.