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163 views 9 replies 8 participants last post by  jsgt  
#1 ·
I celebrated my birthday with a girl I've been dating for awhile. We had sex before, and I was so nervous I went soft. TMI, I know. I was also on citalopram, but made it difficult to get an erection and impossible to climax. When we got sexual this time, I was drunk and couldn't even get erect. I feel like I'm useless and I'm seriously panicking over this. She thinks I'm either not attracted to her or because I may be gay and in denial. I'm very attracted to her, emotionally and physically, and I know I'm not gay. I don't know what to do, and I feel like I'm in a pit that I can't climb out of.
 
Discussion starter · #5 ·
This is the only person I've had sex with, and I feel so embarrassed and I don't feel like a man because of this.