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People you WON'T be friends with?

4.2K views 49 replies 41 participants last post by  Chivor  
#1 ·
People I dislike.
I don't have specifics, everybody's different. I wouldn't like to be judged on a generalisation so I try not to do that to others.
I don't have political opinions... I know little about the british government, I'll leave politics to the people that do.
// and I didn't start this thread. ta
 
#3 ·
As long as they have the same sense of humor as me and don't shoot up heroin in my presence, that's fine.
 
#4 ·
So anyone got anything to say on this matter or does the silence indicate complete agreement with my OP?
The "silence" would be due to the fact that this is, in fact, a forum. That, and you didn't wait very long before asking this. This forum has an abundance of members, but those who post don't post a lot and there are WAY more lurkers than there are actual posters. Try to be patient as it will work in your favour here.

So everyone's in agreement with my OP I take it.

That's good. :)
You mad? It seems like you just wanted us all to know what types of people you hate or something.

To answer you question though, I wouldn't be friends with you, because you come off as rude and judgmental.
 
#9 ·
I could never be friends with nosy people, who give *this* kind of look, when they do not understand your actions. Frankly speaking, I find them quite narrow minded. Some people want to go out and party, and some just wanna stay in whole weekend - nobody's prisoning me here, I have my free will and I can do whatever I want to do. However, they seem not to understand and gossip behind my back. I could never be friends with somebody like that.
 
#10 ·
I don't care if someone's opinions are different than mine. What I care about is how they treat me and other people. I surround myself with people who are loving. I like to feel love. I like to feel acceptance. I like when people treat others with respect and consideration so that's what I most want to be around. I think that people can have differing opinions on anything and still have feelings of care and appreciation. I think that can be tough for people, though, and that's probably why I don't get close to many people (I like them for whatever reason but I don't make myself vulnerable because of the conflict that will result when I see them treating people badly often). I like people who are emotionally strong enough to admit when they're weak. I like who people who are aware enough to admit their flaws. I like to have relationships with people that are either fun or fun and challenging in a positive way. I generally won't be friends with people who are addicted to a substance. It's one thing for a friend I already have to develop an addiction - I am loyal as long as it doesn't kill me. But it's another thing to go and get close to someone who will bring that amount of stress into my life when I didn't have to. Um...I probably won't be friends with someone who puts people down, instigates, is highly judgmental in a negative way. I feel like politics can be an area in which those things happen so it can play a role but as to what their exact opinions are, it'd really depend on the topic and even still I may be their friend anyway. We just won't be political friends, haha. :b I won't be friends with someone who wants me to change in ways I don't feel I need to. The truest me is playful and laidback, someone who wants to spend time making things better instead of spending time bringing people down. I want to be friends with people who don't wanna change that.
 
#36 ·
I also don't want to be friends with someone who is prejudice or discriminates against any group of people as I am Black, White, Native American, bisexual and also a woman and would feel most friendly with someone who doesn't care about any of that about me or any of that about someone else. Just saying.
 
#11 ·
I don't care about people's opinions on politics. It's pretty shallow to care cause political opinions are just their parents' or otherwise media-manufactured. With that said self-righteous people are annoying as hell. Anyone who is strongly political would be annoying to be around for more than short intervals separated by longer intervals. Also overly confident bullies or in general negative people are very annoying to be around.
 
#14 ·
I don't like to be around someone who argues with me most everything I say (a lot of times it's because I'm just trying to say something) but doesn't just argue and debate but come off with the tone verbally or nonverbally that I'm stupid and that all my opinions are just crap. (or respond with silence after they asked me a question in a sarcastic or disrespectful way which I should have answered with silence in the first place). And that I'm bad and stupid for even saying or asking something in the first place.
 
#17 ·
This ^ ^
As long as their is a connection and we have a least one or two similar interests then i would be keen to catch up and chat over a coffee or whatever
although i find people tend to be friendlier online than in real life, and some people who are friendly in real life, tend to be rather stand offish via text messages and online things which is strange, cant you be both???
So yeah i dislike people who are two different things unless they cannot help it due to mental illness because obviously i would be supportive of it but if they are just being duplicitous because they are mean spirited dick heads then no i would avoid them, i would not say i did not like them, just not bother being friends with them
 
#19 ·
Hmm I hang around with a lot of different types of people. I probably wouldn't hang around with gay men (I'm not hating they can do whatever they want, I just feel weird chilling with'em lol), people who hate weed (this would be more mutual I think), really old people (would just be weird I think), and most people who watch Ellen (srz). But even with what I said, if a person was an exceptionally awesome person that fit one of those categories I'd probably chill.
 
#24 ·
I agree, to some extent. I wouldn't be friends with racists, those with homophobia, or people that discriminate based on, well, anything. I really dislike judgmental people and have met quite a few of them in my life, and they are not at all pleasant, so none of them too. Oh, and my list of turn-offs which include: arrogance, clinginess, abrasiveness, obnoxiousness, and condescension. I take an instant disliking to anyone who embodies any of those traits.
 
#23 ·
Black people.




But actually... hmmm... I'd like to think I don't rule anyone out, but if I fundamentally disagree with someone's views, on music or politics or anything else bar religion, then usually I'm so bitter to them they end up hating me anyway. Which just so happens to work out pretty well for me.
 
#30 ·
Black people. They all smell like spaghetti hoops.

But actually... hmmm... I'd like to think I don't rule anyone out, but if I fundamentally disagree with someone's views, on music or politics or anything else bar religion, then usually I'm so bitter to them they end up hating me anyway. Which just so happens to work out pretty well for me.
Black people? was that just for a reaction because it take it you are not actually racist?:afr:afr
 
#28 ·
People I dislike.
I don't have specifics, everybody's different. I wouldn't like to be judged on a generalisation so I try not to do that to others.
I don't have political opinions... I know little about the british government, I'll leave politics to the people that do.
As long as you are decent/respectful to me, don't push my buttons, and don't try to push your morals or beliefs on me (tell me about them as much as you want, but don't attempt to "convert" me), I can get along with just about anyone.
In fact, you would have to be a truly bad person to make me not like you right off the bat (murderer, rapist, child abuser, crooked cop, Justin Bieber, etc).