Okay so today somebody flat out told me in Spanish class that I look - --
16 or 17???
At first she asked me if I was still in high school, I said no which was enough of a suprise. Then she asked me how old I was and she couldn't believe it. Said I look like I could STILL be in high school. And to top it off I believe she was younger than me, maybe 18 or 19.
I was almost offended, you don't tell a 20 something year old adult that he looks like a 16 or 17 year old teenager(no offense to those in HS). How am I supposed to get a job after college when I still look like a teen? Or for that matter how am I supposed to go through life trying to overcome SA while at the same time attempting to get people to take me seriously due to my ****ing babyface???
I had an Idea before that I may look young for my age, but nobody ever flat out told me. I mean I can grow facial hair. I'm short (5'8") but I'm fairly stocky. Can't figure out why I look so much younger.
But 16 or 17??? Come on. I don't even look like a legal adult, apparantly.
Must be why women my own age never take me serously. I'm not ugly. But I guess I'm just boyishly cute or some ****. And I can't date a 16 or 17 year old or else Chris Hansen will show up.
I know many here look young for their age. Let me ask those, how do you cope through everyday life, meeting new people? Has it hindered you from overcoming SA? In what ways would one make themselves look older (particularly males)?
I was beginning to make steps in overcoming SA and I was very optomistic. Now this happens. Feels like such a low blow to my self esteem.
I feel like a failed man. :doh
16 or 17???
At first she asked me if I was still in high school, I said no which was enough of a suprise. Then she asked me how old I was and she couldn't believe it. Said I look like I could STILL be in high school. And to top it off I believe she was younger than me, maybe 18 or 19.
I was almost offended, you don't tell a 20 something year old adult that he looks like a 16 or 17 year old teenager(no offense to those in HS). How am I supposed to get a job after college when I still look like a teen? Or for that matter how am I supposed to go through life trying to overcome SA while at the same time attempting to get people to take me seriously due to my ****ing babyface???
I had an Idea before that I may look young for my age, but nobody ever flat out told me. I mean I can grow facial hair. I'm short (5'8") but I'm fairly stocky. Can't figure out why I look so much younger.
But 16 or 17??? Come on. I don't even look like a legal adult, apparantly.
Must be why women my own age never take me serously. I'm not ugly. But I guess I'm just boyishly cute or some ****. And I can't date a 16 or 17 year old or else Chris Hansen will show up.
I know many here look young for their age. Let me ask those, how do you cope through everyday life, meeting new people? Has it hindered you from overcoming SA? In what ways would one make themselves look older (particularly males)?
I was beginning to make steps in overcoming SA and I was very optomistic. Now this happens. Feels like such a low blow to my self esteem.
I feel like a failed man. :doh