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does posting on forums feel like you are talking to a wall?

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Does posting messages on this forum or any forum feel like you are talking to a wall?

4.8K views 53 replies 47 participants last post by  Diacetylmorphine  
#1 ·
Well, does it?

This is the feeling I get, when a message is posted you have to wait a few hours (if you are lucky) to a few days before you get a response, then you respond back and wait a few more days for another response. It is dragging out a conversation on the timescale, I wonder if this hurts the ability to communicate in real time,
ofcourse, there are good things about forums too.
 
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#5 ·
Yes it does feel like Im talking to a wall, but then I talk to walls in real life anyway. :) I do like people here. But I know I will never meet 99% of you all. I really dont know why I keep typing. I could quite easily lurk and still keep coming back here.
 
#6 ·
Not really but I don't post to get a response or interact with other members very often.
 
#12 ·
It is nice to see that others have the same problems I have, and there is helpful info here, but as far as posting, I do feel like I'm talking to myself. Not even really sure why I post, unless I'm hanging on to that small chance that someone will talk to me. I'm so tired of being misunderstood by people who don't suffer from SA.
 
#21 ·
:ditto

I often don't even remember which threads I've posted in.
hahaha very much so, sometimes no one even acknowledges your post and you just think dang I waited for nothing
On other forums that I've tried to join up, yeah.

Here? no. Maybe it's just because of the type of forum it is, but I think this community is different. People seem interested in helping each other, and seem understanding of what you have to say.
It's like talking to a wall that's got it's back turned to you and is having a conversation with itself about how awesome it thinks it is.
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Well, this wall is answering back. How ya doing guys? :D
 
#47 ·
I do, but it doesn't mean people don't read what you say. That's a bad habit that I have. If I don't get a reply or something, I think I was ignored. Lots of people are reading what we say, and we don't even know it!

Also, I've always liked your avatar I just never said anything up until now. :D
 
#28 ·
Pretty much, yes, especially since my posts are usually ignored. I hate message boards and yet still use them. I've pledged several times to completely ban all message board usage, but it doesn't look like I'm doing too well on that resolve.