Don't cut yourself please.
And it's never that simple.
But if you really want one, you can't expect someone to fall out of the sky. I say meet some personal goals, value of yourself- not even necessarily for the girls, but for you. You doing better will make your chances better.
Now, let's talk about what it is that you are doing.
Are you satisfied with how you present yourself? What have you tried when attempting to gain someone's attention?