Back in the earliest days, the cavemen days, humans still had to reproduce, yet there was no language, no spoken word. We had vocals, so we had vocal tone, but surely we weren't ready to communicate effictively without the aid of body language, eye contact, touching and like I said vocal tone.
If we were able to seduce the opposite sex without words, and make friends with the same sex, then that is hardwired into our genes. You can't fight your genes. If you were born with a passion for engineering, and you admired your father for being a good engineer, you are going to be UNABLE to stay away from engineering.
You think cavemen and tribesmen and women suffered from Social Anxiety Disorder? No. Why? Because it is NOT a real condition. It is NOT a real illness. It's man-made. It's a disorder invented by doctors and scientists who were trying too hard, to make money. We're a socialised species, it's in our nature to connect and be friends with the humans around us. For a doctor to say that some people are born without the necessary survival skills (not self-survival, I'm talking about the survival of our species) is arrogant beyond beleif, not to mention cruel.
You want to know what kind of person YOU are, as a "sufferer of SAD"? You are a people person. You have an incontrollable desire to make the other people around you happy. You can't fight it. You can't hide it. You've been blessed with that much sincerity, even if you did your best to stay silent, your natural instincts will fight your mind, and this will manifest itself in the form of blushing, sweating, stuttering, nausea etc.
The mind is the last sacred thing left. We don't know how it works, and we never will. The will is locked away in the mind. That's why if a surgeon and science team was to cut it open to find out how it works, like it is some sort of man-made machine they want to analyze and fix, your will to live will be tapped, and you will die.
SAD is a by-product of modern society. The more the man tries to control us, there will be more speculation about mental illnesses and disorders. Speculation, in this sense, is bad. Why would we analyze what CAN go wrong? What COULD be wrong? Will that help the sufferer? To tell them what's wrong, and they must do this, they must take these meds, they must see this expert, to be cured? Cured from an illness, that is locked away inside the mind? Can anyone read minds? Does anyone know how the mind REALLY works? If I didn't know how laptops worked, would you trust me to know what's wrong with YOUR broken laptop? No, you wouldn't, because I don't have the knowledge necessary to diagnose. And neither do the self-proclaimed SAD gurus.
I live in the moment. In school I wanted to speak to everyone, but society taught me to fear strangers. Why should I? Why should I fear my fellow humans? But I listened to society. I feared to make new friends, to become isolated and be alone with my own thoughts. But even then, my thoughts turned outwards to other people. BECAUSE IM A HUMAN, I AM SOCIALISED. I-AM-NOT-HARDWIRED-TO-BE-ALONE. If the earliest humans avoided each other and isolated themselves, we would not be here.
You wanna have a good conversation with a stranger? Make them talk about themselves, and keep that subject going as long as possible. Don't plan the conversation out in your head beforehand. When a man approaches a girl he likes, he will try to plan the interaction, he will visualize a routine and hope it happens. What DOES happen, then? The interaction goes nothing like the way he imagined, and he started stuttering and panicing. This what you do, isn't it? Before you start a conversation with your friends, people your comfortable with, do you try and plan out the conversation? Do you choose a list of topics to arm yourself with beforehand? No. What do you do? You run with it, in the moment. Proper conversation is LIVE and flowing. It's instinctive. It does not require concious thought or any effort on your part. IT...IS...HARDWIRED!!! This is what I am doing now. I am thinking ALOUD. I am typing my thoughts onto this screen as they occur to me. If we were face-to-face, it would NOT be more difficult. It would be EASIER. Why? Because we have body language, vocal tone, eye contact and everything else to help communication.
The only thing in this world that matters, is SURVIVAL in REPLICATION. Love, friends, sex, food, chemicals, water and comfort. Those are the things we're HARDWIRED to seek. All the rest? Such as money, is a means to an end. Most of the material CRAP that money can buy is non-essential. It is BULL****.
If we were able to seduce the opposite sex without words, and make friends with the same sex, then that is hardwired into our genes. You can't fight your genes. If you were born with a passion for engineering, and you admired your father for being a good engineer, you are going to be UNABLE to stay away from engineering.
You think cavemen and tribesmen and women suffered from Social Anxiety Disorder? No. Why? Because it is NOT a real condition. It is NOT a real illness. It's man-made. It's a disorder invented by doctors and scientists who were trying too hard, to make money. We're a socialised species, it's in our nature to connect and be friends with the humans around us. For a doctor to say that some people are born without the necessary survival skills (not self-survival, I'm talking about the survival of our species) is arrogant beyond beleif, not to mention cruel.
You want to know what kind of person YOU are, as a "sufferer of SAD"? You are a people person. You have an incontrollable desire to make the other people around you happy. You can't fight it. You can't hide it. You've been blessed with that much sincerity, even if you did your best to stay silent, your natural instincts will fight your mind, and this will manifest itself in the form of blushing, sweating, stuttering, nausea etc.
The mind is the last sacred thing left. We don't know how it works, and we never will. The will is locked away in the mind. That's why if a surgeon and science team was to cut it open to find out how it works, like it is some sort of man-made machine they want to analyze and fix, your will to live will be tapped, and you will die.
SAD is a by-product of modern society. The more the man tries to control us, there will be more speculation about mental illnesses and disorders. Speculation, in this sense, is bad. Why would we analyze what CAN go wrong? What COULD be wrong? Will that help the sufferer? To tell them what's wrong, and they must do this, they must take these meds, they must see this expert, to be cured? Cured from an illness, that is locked away inside the mind? Can anyone read minds? Does anyone know how the mind REALLY works? If I didn't know how laptops worked, would you trust me to know what's wrong with YOUR broken laptop? No, you wouldn't, because I don't have the knowledge necessary to diagnose. And neither do the self-proclaimed SAD gurus.
I live in the moment. In school I wanted to speak to everyone, but society taught me to fear strangers. Why should I? Why should I fear my fellow humans? But I listened to society. I feared to make new friends, to become isolated and be alone with my own thoughts. But even then, my thoughts turned outwards to other people. BECAUSE IM A HUMAN, I AM SOCIALISED. I-AM-NOT-HARDWIRED-TO-BE-ALONE. If the earliest humans avoided each other and isolated themselves, we would not be here.
You wanna have a good conversation with a stranger? Make them talk about themselves, and keep that subject going as long as possible. Don't plan the conversation out in your head beforehand. When a man approaches a girl he likes, he will try to plan the interaction, he will visualize a routine and hope it happens. What DOES happen, then? The interaction goes nothing like the way he imagined, and he started stuttering and panicing. This what you do, isn't it? Before you start a conversation with your friends, people your comfortable with, do you try and plan out the conversation? Do you choose a list of topics to arm yourself with beforehand? No. What do you do? You run with it, in the moment. Proper conversation is LIVE and flowing. It's instinctive. It does not require concious thought or any effort on your part. IT...IS...HARDWIRED!!! This is what I am doing now. I am thinking ALOUD. I am typing my thoughts onto this screen as they occur to me. If we were face-to-face, it would NOT be more difficult. It would be EASIER. Why? Because we have body language, vocal tone, eye contact and everything else to help communication.
The only thing in this world that matters, is SURVIVAL in REPLICATION. Love, friends, sex, food, chemicals, water and comfort. Those are the things we're HARDWIRED to seek. All the rest? Such as money, is a means to an end. Most of the material CRAP that money can buy is non-essential. It is BULL****.
