Ok I don‘t know if this will get any traction, but I will make a start:
Ok but it still helps you hang in there.In general, lyrics don't mean that much to me because I rarely really think about them. For me, it's generally the melodies. So many songs helped me stay in a calm state of mind over the years. There's a certain atmosphere that a song can have that just kind of lulls me. Many of them were cheesy 80s love songs but I never listened to them as they were intended. I've rarely been in any relationships or felt that strongly about anyone so even if I did listen to the lyrics of a love song and relate to them, it would be in a vicarious sort of way (Which I often find comforting to just know that someone somewhere is happy and in love).