I've been taking Lexapro for 4 years straight now. The medicine is doing it's job. I haven't felt depressed since i've been taking it. I've come to an understanding that i may be on antidepressants for the rest of my life in order to function normally. Anyway here's the thing. Lexapro has lowered my sex drive drastically. I can't achieve orgasm while wearing a condom. Without one isn't a problem. When i first started taking lexapro, my girlfriend at the time was on birthcontrol so this wasn't an issue with her. But since we split I haven't had a girlfriend for 2 years. I'm very insecure about being on antidepressants. No one knows except for my immediate family. Many girls have tried to pursue me and i backed out every single time fearing that it would lead to sex....then lead to wearing a condom...then lead to not achieving an orgasm....then faking an orgasm...then the girl finds out that i faked it when she sees no semen in the condom...then she thinks i'm a freak and tells all her friends...and then my friends find out. BTW sex without a condom is not an option for me unless she's taking the pill. I've always wanted to meet a sweet girl that would just date me enough times for me to earn her trust so i'd be comfortable enough to tell her my situation. But that never happens. I've met many sweet girls and they all turned out to be sex hungry. First impressions can be deceiving. I really should look harder but i suffer from SA and don't meet that many girls. I may be single for the rest of my life because of this ridiculous insecurity. Does anyone else experience nasty side effects like me?