I do. Unless they are women who are a lot older than me, or they are children, I feel awkward around women and girls. I guess it's because I feel like I don't fit in well, and as much as I try to relate to them or be like them or find some common ground, it doesn't work. I feel like I should fit in with them because usually most females have something in common, but when we don't it just feels awkward. It's hard to even carry on a conversation with them. Does anyone else feel like this?
Jayne311
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Yeah. My anxiety shoots up high whenever i'm with women that are very very confident, very very loud or very very pretty. Especially so, around my age, 23 years. Man, they not only look more mature but even lead very mature lives like moving out with their partners, having kids and even holding down a full-time job.
But ironically, I feel most comfortable with woman, especially for friendship unlike men. I don't really have real life male friends because I feel very uncomfortable with them.
I honestly think it's not about gender issues. It's just that my self-esteem went hay-wire whenever I meet people that fits into the extremely extroverted mould.
But ironically, I feel most comfortable with woman, especially for friendship unlike men. I don't really have real life male friends because I feel very uncomfortable with them.
I honestly think it's not about gender issues. It's just that my self-esteem went hay-wire whenever I meet people that fits into the extremely extroverted mould.
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