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accidentally stare at guys' crotches

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#1 ·
curse you, SA! you know how when you have SA, you cannot make eye contact very often? With guys I always accidentally look at their pants/crotch region. Because i cannot make eye contact, mostly with guys. how can i stop doing this? i just realized the other day at work, that i do this with a lot of customers. how embarassing. how do i stop? :mum
 
#2 ·
Look at our belly buttons or our beer guts. Better yet, try the nose :).
 
#3 ·
I do this sometimes, too. Or stare at other girls' boobs. -_- I doubt they notice unless it's like several seconds of staring.
 
#6 ·
lol- ohmy XD

I tend to stare off into space... or just completely avoid a person's eyes when they're talking to me.

hmm... I suppose if you could condition yourself to think of something that's gross or that freaks you out when you look at a guy's junk- you won't be as inclined to stare anymore?
Then again... if it's his crotch- and you think of gross things; in the future you may have troubles letting go of the gross thoughts if you want to... S a D.
oops! I've got no idea. haha
 
#13 ·
I looooooooove this, one of their best songs. :D

I accidentally looked at a guy's crotch the other day. He was a handsome guy and I felt embarrassed when we made eye contact so I quickly looked down and unfortunately, my eyes settled on his sugar lumps. Oops. :eek:ops
 
#8 ·
HAHAHA. that video is funny. i guess girls are used to guys checking them and their body parts out. but for guys, maybe they dont expect or notice it. haha. or maybe it doesnt happen as often. ive tried looking in their eyes, or to the side. i just always naturally look down. even when walking sometimes my head is down to avoid eye contact. its so irritating.
 
#9 ·
I get roasted looking at boobs all the time lol...can't stop. I don't stare or anything but I know they see my eyes at the "angle" :teeth
 
#33 ·
My mom always told me to took at people's mouths. It's somewhat effective, but kinda freaks me out too. I'll give noses a shot though. Anything to avoid the eyes!

As for checking out the goods, I agree that guys are probably not going to notice a girl looking at his junk as much as a girl is going to notice a guy staring at her boobs. And even if we do notice, we'd probably be pleased if anything else. It just doesn't happen to us very often.

All guys that dislike women checking them out raise their hands... Anyone?
I agree with this sentiment. ^

That's probably why guys tend to come onto women so strongly (because we wish they did the same for us). That's also probably the reason why women don't come onto guys strongly (because they wish guys didn't). :lol
 
#14 ·
All guys that dislike women checking them out raise their hands... Anyone?

I tend to be looking at the floor anyways so it's just natural to look at everything as my eyes are coming up. I wouldn't worry about it too much but now that you have noticed that you do it just make a concious effort to make eye contact. It's somethign most of need to work on anyways.
 
#18 ·
True. :lol

Oh, a little bit of advice for any crotchgazers: if you accidentally look at a man's groin area, do NOT look him in the eyes afterwards. Even if you just want to check whether he saw you looking or not. Chances are he did. Aaaaaaawwwwwwwwwkward.
 
#23 ·
I know D: I think this thread is worming it's way into my subconscious. By tomorrow evening I'll no longer be able to talk to anyone's face. Face-to-crotch communication only. On the upside, I guess that'll solve my eye-contact issues.
 
#22 ·
It usually starts as an accident --- then... geez ya just can't stop looking. It's the same with women and big br***** in a good bra though... it's like a car wreck - you don't wanna stare but it's just there and ya can't help it.
 
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#34 ·
Wow! I knew women did this but I never knew to this extent! This is aweso...er I meen...I FEEL LIKE I'M BEING TREATED LIKE A SLAB OF MEAT!

Did no one think of the scene from what Women want when they saw this by the way?
 
#37 ·
ever since i started this thread i keep accidentally doing this. its so embarassing. its good to know that guys seem oblivious to it. i notice i do this sometimes when watching a movie in a theater. because everyone is so much bigger on the screen, its easier to see...things...haha. at least i know im not the only girl that does this. phew.!
 
#38 ·
My eyes are up here. :lol