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Would you date someone with credit card debt?

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· Retired Enforcer
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I'm not going to interview someone as to their financial situation prior to going on a date with them.
 

· Big Boo's Haunt
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Other - only if they dyed their hair fluro pink every third Friday, unless there was a southerly wind that requires their hair to be blue instead, and wore their pants backwards on the second last Monday of each month.
 

· LoneWolf
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given that i have trauma with my dad with debts. i would not but as long as it's not too much and with the right reason. but i dating is okay i suppose but when that person becomes a life long partner, it'd be something to be considered about. cause bad unreasonable debts could ruin everything. otherwise. id try to help as much as possible. that;s what i think.
 

· SASsy
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I wouldn't care if we're just dating but if marriage is in the future then I'd be concerned because she would be bringing a boat load of debt into the marriage and that wouldn't be good.
 

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I'm currently dating someone with debts of over £18,000...
 

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Yes, but I would not be paying of there debts, guranteeing a loan, or being responsible for any loans that he takes out. I'd help, but I'd also be curious as to why they're in debt, whether it was unavoidable, or whether its because they have a gambling addiction, or they're just irresponsible. But they're an adult. Its up to them how they live there life. That's there buisness. I'm just not being dragged down with them.

I'm not going to interview someone as to their financial situation prior to going on a date with them.
Ha ha ha
 

· MBTI: INFJ Enneagram:4w5
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As long as it was not too much and used on things that were actually NEEDED (like groceries before being approved for food stamps or in supplementation to that.)
 
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