[pokeherpro]

My heart...whats left of it...goes out to you man. Ugh. What a tough situation. What you don't want to do is try to change, for her. Do it for yourself. Even if she is a liar and gets a divorce(she said til death do us part, right?), try to get better. I mean, I'm assuming you aren't happy with your shyness. If you are happy with how you are, but she's not, then don't change for her. Don't be unhappy to make someone else happy. Good luck man, keep us updated, there's some good people on this site that you can talk to.

 

[pokeherpro]

I think it's horrible she had some plan to "change" you. "Help" would have been the better word, or "support". That's what she should be doing now, is helping you, the way you'd help her if the situation were reversed. That's why people get married, to help each other be better people, until they die. Not anymore apparently.