I have always had a problem making and keeping friends and boyfriends. The worst part is that I don't know why or what I do wrong. I try to talk to people first and start conversations, but it doesn't usually go any further than a few conversations and texts. I be nice to people and try to be there for them, but I'm usually always the one calling/texting first or trying to make plans first. Does anyone have any advice that could help me?