The same. Except switch the genders around. I find myself comparing myself to other males (usually unfavourably). And unless it's a woman I find at all attractive, then I become even more socially debilitated. Yay me.I feel much more comfortable around men. When I'm around other women, I feel really insecure and anxious because I constantly compare myself to them, and always come up short and feeling like a loser. Men seem to appreciate me the way I am, and enjoy my company, whereas women tend to act *****y and shut me out.