So I have been with normal girls and they don't understand anything about my social anxiety and seem to be really shallow. My last girlfriend traded me in for party life. Literally she has become addicted to clubs and is now on a rampage of free crazy life she believes. Also I'm going to be looking for mature girls too but I really believe that a girl who was like me could understand each other but not only that, also appreciate each other. So where is a good place to start looking? Definitely not bars or clubs which is good. The internet isn't proving that useful either.