[Jeff]

Is there one thing you wish you could do or change (that you have trouble doing because of SA), that stands out above everything else? A particular action that would make you feel you've cleared a major obstacle, and give you both a deep sense of satisfaction as well as achievement?

And I'm speaking of something specific, an action, not a feeling. Not general terms...because we all want to feel more confident, happy, etc.

For me, I would love to be able to go up to complete strangers and strike up a conversation. Mainly because this seems like such a critical social skill that could serve me well in just about any social situation. The benefits of being comfortable doing that on a regular basis are endless.

 

[xLinnyx]

Yep I think it's being able to make conversation and talk more and also to be more spontaneous and take more risks without always weighing up the pros and cons first - both of these would inevitably make my friendships and relationships last longer and make them more exciting

 

[anonymid]

I would love to be able to get a job and support myself.

 

[Catching Fire]

I would love to not be so stiff and figetity. I also wish I could think straight in social settings.

 

[wiselittleracoon]

I would have to agree with you.Striking up convo with strangers would mean I could get a job,or go to school and decide on a carreer for the rest of my life.Just being able to feel comfortable interacting and having small talk at the grocery store would make me feel much better about myself.

 

[Hysteric]

I want to go be able to go to college.

 

[shyvr6]

Talking to people and being able to maintain a conversation.

 

[socially inept]

Is there one thing you wish you could do or change (that you have trouble doing because of SA), that stands out above everything else? A particular action that would make you feel you've cleared a major obstacle, and give you both a deep sense of satisfaction as well as achievement?

And I'm speaking of something specific, an action, not a feeling. Not general terms...because we all want to feel more confident, happy, etc.

For me, I would love to be able to go up to complete strangers and strike up a conversation. Mainly because this seems like such a critical social skill that could serve me well in just about any social situation. The benefits of being comfortable doing that on a regular basis are endless.

idike toable to just relax around oter people. just be around others and not care what the thn, not have a care in the wrd, just act naturally

 

[michi]

I love to be able to fly!

 

[Recusant]

I want to go skydiving. If I did it would mean I lost alot of weight (thre's a limit) and since I'm afraid of heights I think pushing through that would be helpfull.

 

[megansumbrella]

I'd love to be able to dance...

 

[Metallic]

To make friends.

 

[sacred]

join a mixed martial arts gym.

 

[alpha dog]

To meet that perfect girl.

 

[belfort]

Live

 

[bbarn]

To be able to be a risk taker and think in the moment, not care about consequences instead of remembering past occasions/failures and future murkiness.

 

[Icelanddude]

i would like to be able to talk to strangers or just anyone without feeling anxious obviously and feel comfortable about what i say and not regret something stupid i might say..

 

[Attica! Attica!]

Travel and meet people

 

[Perfectionist]

Drive!

 

[shyshisho]

Date.