I never understood it. I'm not the type that would be seen in that kind of social environment. If you ask me, having fun would take place in a sports event (even though I am not into sports but wouldn't mind watching one in person), being in the city walking with a friend, traveling to another country, laser tag (only played once in my life), skiing, etc... I don't know how drinking the whole night, making a fool of yourself would be considered having fun. I understand that social people are light years more social than I am, but partying and having sex is far from having fun to me. Girls dressed provocatively for special attention is not the kind of environment I would want to be. Unlike most guys in those situations, I am more likely to think with my brain than my ****. I enjoyed when I was taking the beginning courses listening to professors give lectures, that itself I considered fun. I wouldn't have mind if I gained self esteem during that time and became friends with a student there so we could study college material together. I'm Hispanic but don't listen to Spanish music. Most of that music is for partying and dancing. I don't dance. It's not what I do. I can listen to songs like Roc Boys by Jay Z and enjoy them, but I wouldn't listen to the goofy type hip hop usually played by southern rap artists. I would rather hang out with a college professor and let him talk to me about school material than be in a club surrounded by girls.