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I found applying specifics really doesn't work at all. All it does is limit you. You might find the issues you thought were important really aren't because you like something else even more about the person. It's the person themselves that's important. Everything about them adds to their impression and how you get along with them. Their overall personality can make some things much more or less bothersome than they might be in someone else. You never can tell until you get to know them.
