Yeah since i've started to think - no one is interested - and no wants to be my friend - i have relaxed a whole lot- lol - i am not kidding!
I just go to work now - when i am not working from home - try to be polite and get along - and never ever think that anyone i meet is looking for a date - just a conversation. Its working a lot better
As for the dating - i am on a dating site - where i know the intentions of people.
And yes - anytime i've not been thinking about what is going on - i am pretty normal - its when i start analyzing things to death that gets me acting strange.