I look for a quietness, I look for some unknown quality that makes me feel safe.... it is like an innocence - I've rarely found it easily expressed by men. I have to feel attraction but it is less to do with real good looks at it is about a feeling. I guess I am different but I like receding hairlines but prefer it when men with such are not always getting their hair cut to keep it really short. I like a guy who only shaves once or twice a week - that way I get to enjoy razor stubbly/rugged look/feel and clean shaven look w/aftershave (preferable Old Spice). I like guys who are under 5'8" tall - since I am 5' 0". I like to be able to communicate but to be able to sit together and cuddle in silence and be comfortable 'just being together'. I like it when someone finds my humor funny and not weird - even if it is weird. I want to feel like I am funny without feeling like I am being laughed at - which is hard. I like it when someone is willing to hold my hand, hug and be close without pushing all of the boundaries too fast - but will push them and enjoy pushing them and never push me away, say no and will let me enjoy them too. I like someone who likes kissing and understands that sometimes it can be the greatest pastime.
Mostly I guess I am the person who wants to 'experience someone' to see, hear, smell, taste, touch and feel someone on all levels emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, physically and sexually. Terrifying, yeah, I know... that is why I am still alone.