I signed up to a meeting group a few weeks ago, to expand my social circle. You know, take the risk by putting myself out there and I met them for the first time earlier on today and only just got back about 20 minutes ago, and I got to tell you that it went better than expected. Even though there was 6 people, I was talking to them for about 3 hours or so (no exaggeration neither) I ordered some food (I brought two chicken wraps which was expensive especially considering just how small they were) and It took me about an hour to eat because I was their with my food in my hands just talking on and on, until I politely asked the person I talked to, for us to talk after I'm done clearing my plate. Throughout the evening I didn't stutter or anything and I was able to think of things to say right on the spot.
My only regret was that there was a beautiful waitress at the bar, I really wanted to ask her for her number but I'm afraid I didn't do it. But besides that I enjoyed myself and would love to go to another meet up as well sometime. Who know's my confidence level may strike even higher and If I end up going to the same place, or somewhere different then there maybe a bigger change in which I would talk to her or another woman and ask her out. Life is definitely like an RPG game. Got to get that experience and then you'll level up.
My only regret was that there was a beautiful waitress at the bar, I really wanted to ask her for her number but I'm afraid I didn't do it. But besides that I enjoyed myself and would love to go to another meet up as well sometime. Who know's my confidence level may strike even higher and If I end up going to the same place, or somewhere different then there maybe a bigger change in which I would talk to her or another woman and ask her out. Life is definitely like an RPG game. Got to get that experience and then you'll level up.