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Zodiac Sign: LEO!!!
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despite a long battle with appearance and body issues and worry ( I suspected mild BDD for a long time), i made myself get me arms and legs out today!..... for only the second summer in my whole life .....

( cut off at under knee and the shirt sleeves rolled right up)

god, I felt uncomfortable and self conscious ( leg wise).....but after some 1/2 hour was more used to it, felt a bit liberated , felt a bit more normal like everyone else to bare some flesh.....felt comfortable in the heat!

no one could give a f*** what you wear, no one cares, or stares.......and I eventually felt good .....

I thought that was something I could never do ..... my self consciousness was so bad in the past......( but there is still some work to do)


if you are/ were like me......with similar body issues and worried like this....face it, take the step....you WILL be glad you did! and you will look more like a normal person.
 

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!!!!!congrats on making progress!!!!!

ultimately, no one cares, but i think men aren't gawked at or evaluated the way women are, so it's kind of not the same in that respect

i get what you're saying though

it's all inconsequential in the long run
 
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