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The top two problems of mine are as follows:
1. I want to make more friends, but as soon as it looks like I'm going to have to spend a lot of time with a particular person, I start to back off and isolate myself (pretend to be busy).
2. I want to be productive, but as soon as it looks like something is going to require a lot of concentration, I get antsy and start to procrastinate.

How can the same person can have two contradictory tendencies at the same time?
 

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^true, but it also comes down to fear of failure, it's easier to do nothing than to try and fail. If you were someone who was raised to beleive you could succeed it wouldn't be a problem but you have obviously been programed to fail.
 
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