Going on a date is hard for me. One on one in a restaurant can be horribly uncomfortable. Stumbling over words, awkward silent moments. For somone with SA being in the spotlight is horrible. A more comfortable thing to do on a first date is to find a place to get a guided tour through. A museum, wine making place, anywhere. I once asked the dry cleaners down the street if he would give me a tour through his store and explain what happens after a shirt is dropped off. THe date was great. The spotlight was on the store owner. He did all the talking and i had questions though the whole thing and so did she. A tour is one way for a more comfortable date that she/he will always remember as a fun time with you.