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I want to be able to look in the mirror and atleast one time this year and be able to think that I am pretty.
Definitely a good goal even non-SAs should try to achieve.I want to be able to look in the mirror and atleast one time this year and be able to think that I am pretty.
It's not about comparing yourself. Comparing yourself to other people is the problem. Stop comparing yourself to some ideal image, or to some celebrity. This is not about some objective standard of beauty. It's about your psychology, how you view yourself... it's about your self-image.its all about who you're comparing yourself to
when you become an old geezer and look back at old photos you will not believe how pretty you were
It is that simple. It's just not quick or easy. I'm pretty much just referring to David Burns' chapter on self-esteem. Your thoughts control your emotions, so think realistically about yourself. Do the CBT daily, and eventually you'll find yourself with a healthier self-image.that's a good goal to start with :3 i used to struggle with that too... hope you have fun dressing up:yay
As for "choosing" how to feel about yourself, it's not really that simple. Sometimes you have to learn to love yourself slowly, choices are not black and white.
Seriously. I look in the mirror everyday. I Like the way I look. I see myself as this good looking guy, but also not too sure if I am attractive to girls. I really want to know. Even on dating sites, I am still not sure if girls will find me attractive in real life, because people look different in pictures. Life suxI've been looking in the mirror lately, and seeing an attractive guy. I'm not sure if girls see that, though.