Born Of Blotmonað
The above quote is a thought I had earlier today & posted in the "Random Thoughts" thread here on the forum. It made me think I should open up a discussion about it."I'm both Socially Anxious & Anti-Social"
The little time that I do spend out & about I'm either giving off a vibe that says "Leave Me The Hell Alone" or a vibe that says "I'm Awkward & Timid"
- Some become anti-social not because they are naturally prone to it because they simply feel that avoiding anxiety is a priority. These people are often inclined to want lots of interaction but their anxieties are usually the more dominant influence on their actions
- Others are naturally prone to being anti-social & enjoy their alone time but when they either want or need to interact that's when SA is extremely problematic . These are people who don't want the big crew just a few good people to relate with - (This is how I am)
I'm curious about where people find themselves between the 2 if you do at all, any & all thoughts on this are welcome