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I have no heart!!
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This is probably a wierd thread to put on this website but this chick wont leave me alone.Ive tried not talking to her but she wont get the messege! And , for starters, the reason i dnt wanna to her is she said we were just friends when i wanted to date her she wanted another person and that hurt. So now , the other guy dumped her or something - she wants to be with me again and im not havin that. I dnt wanna hurt her feelings , but i dnt wanna be with her !!!!!!:|
 

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This is probably a wierd thread to put on this website but this chick wont leave me alone.Ive tried not talking to her but she wont get the messege! And , for starters, the reason i dnt wanna to her is she said we were just friends when i wanted to date her she wanted another person and that hurt. So now , the other guy dumped her or something - she wants to be with me again and im not havin that. I dnt wanna hurt her feelings , but i dnt wanna be with her !!!!!!:|
If I was desperately chasing a guy the best way to get me to stop was to tell me exactly what you said there, "You didn't want to be with me when I asked you out and now that you've been dumped, I am not having that." Be brutally honest and clear about your intentions to NOT have a relationship with her. Do not send mixed messages like: occasionally responding to her attempts at communication. Some girls love it when guys sometimes respond to messages. It is like this, should I text him again? Should I wait? Should I call? He didn't answer, maybe I will call again? All of that = desperate/confused. :sigh
 
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