Unfortunately, the odds of ending up with a girl with social anxiety are pretty slim and I'd try to stear away from that hope. Anyway, two socially anxious people aren't necessarily meant for each other. Another unfortunate reality is this, and I've said it before -- many people here will die alone. It's a particularly disturbing fact and it's not fair, but it's true. Humans are social and we aren't good at it. Other conditions do not necessarily keep you from finding a mate. Heck, they may even help. I bet narcissists get lots of dates. Of course, they are the root of all evil. Being socially awkward puts people off and makes them uncomfortable. Not very good if you are looking for a mate, especially for guys and, no, I am not even remotely trying to get into a gender war thing. It's just a fact of life and you have to live with it. A simple "do you want to hang out sometime?" can be hard enough for a normal person. For us it's terrible. Our lack of self-confidence keeps us from getting anywhere. Then you have people, including here, that tell you to work on your confidence. Not totally realistic. You have to find someone that can deal with you in general, because you're probably always going to lack confidence and have a certain degree of social anxiety. It's the initial getting to know someone and asking them out that is hard. Sometimes it doesn't even work out that way and if that's the case you are lucky. You gradually just get into a relationship. I'm into that. Of course, I don't hang out with anyone enough for that to happen.
