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i don't expect very many posts with this thread..

but that's okay.. it's for everyone that works and just need a place to just post whatever's on their mind.
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Have you ever tried breathing sessions and meditation type practices? If so, how did they work out for you? As far as helping with stress.
I have and they do help relax me. But I have a hard time doing them consistently. I have a hard time sticking to anything without external force or structure. There was a period of time when I was meditating for 2 hours a day and reading lots of spiritual books and feeling super great, but I didn't have a full-time job back then. You can't win lol.
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Thanks, I'm glad it isn't just me who's had this experience with it. They are always wheeling patients in and out in beds, so there's no opportunity to actually get in the rooms and clean. So idk really. It's basically impossible to get it all done, even when I am fuelled by Monster energy drinks and running round like a headless chicken. Even a lady who has been working there 34 years said don't try to get it all done.

The nurses are all really busy. So patients in the waiting room at the clinics have to ask the cleaners for help with things, like being wheeled around in their chairs and help eating and stuff. Happy to help of course but it does take away time from what you're supposed to be doing.
Woah, I never got asked to wheel patients around or help people eat. That would take up even more time. Sounds incredibly stressful!

Yeah I think the only way to survive in a job like that is to not care so much unfortunately. Management in those places expect too much :(
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Woah, I never got asked to wheel patients around or help people eat. That would take up even more time. Sounds incredibly stressful!

Yeah I think the only way to survive in a job like that is to not care so much unfortunately. Management in those places expect too much :(
The nurses like to park patients in wheelchairs right in front of our cleaning cupboard, so we have to keep wheeling them out of the way. Whilst trying not to slam them directly into a wall like I always nearly manage to.

They also like to give cake (or whatever they've got spare) to the patients who haven't eaten for a long time which is nice, but I guess eating cake in a wheelchair when you're 80 years old isn't easy so we have to help them out sometimes.

The nurses work for the NHS, but the cleaners work for an on-site facilities company (with none of the perks of being a full NHS employee) so there's a bit of a disconnect there.
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Soon, I'll go back to work. I just wish we did more fun stuff. Like have a lunch of sorts, to be inspired somehow. Maybe have a trivia night or play bingo once in a while. One therapist in the past was like, "that's why it's called work and not fun.."
Well in that case, that's why it's called the fifth circle of hell and not freedom 😂
I had an individual project pretty much completed at 99.99%. But then I made a very very last second absent minded mistake and that mistake singlehandedly made me having to redo most of the project. It's been about a week since and I'm still beating myself over it. At least for now, this is something I can keep to myself without others knowing.
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Glad to get this work week over with. 2400 miles driven, 70 stops unloaded by hand, and 56.5 hours total.
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It's past 1 am and I'm wide awake not wanting to go to sleep because tomorrow is Monday back to work day. Feels a bit like knowing you're gonna die tomorrow and clinging to your last day on earth not wanting it to end lol. I have serious thoughts of quitting my job and just doing nothing - by which I mean, working part time flexibly, and spending the extra spare time on therapy, self care, going to parks, galleries, theatre, travels, fitness classes, art classes, join clubs, eat at good restaurants,...

I have some savings that could last me a couple of years easy (probably longer with the part time income), and I am unattached with no dependents. It's not like I'm tied down by responsibilities like other people my age with young kids and whatnot. I don't know why I'm so scared of the thought of quitting with no "back-up plan". If the back-up plan is another job that sticks me in a cubicle (or chains me to my laptop) for the best parts of the week, then wtf is the point of living?

Sometimes I almost feel like homelessness would be preferable, or getting into a car accident and losing a limb or something, because at least it would jolt me out of my rut and really force me to live differently. But maybe I'm just being stupid.
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The other day at work I spoke with someone who really cares a lot about the environment and it was really good to talk to someone that actually gives a you know what haha. I probably did their head in when I was telling them loads of things that were going on at the place we work at that they'll probably hide when they hear me coming 😆
I had an individual project pretty much completed at 99.99%. But then I made a very very last second absent minded mistake and that mistake singlehandedly made me having to redo most of the project. It's been about a week since and I'm still beating myself over it. At least for now, this is something I can keep to myself without others knowing.
With some luck involved, I manage to complete it a few hours ago. 🙌
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Two ladies at my work had a very heated disagreement this evening. :oops: The word that starts with b and rhymes with 'itch' was in frequent use. It was getting pretty vocal and unpleasant so I snuck out before the inevitable fist fight started.

I hope they make up and become friends again. It's not my business what caused their falling out but I will pray that things are sorted out amicably between them.
i should get paid for involuntary dreams about work.
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There is a nurse in one of my areas at work who was always very nice to me. But I could never remember her name. So I asked my workmate what her name was. My workmate then went and blatantly just told her that I forgot her name and asked what her name was! :eek: So now she doesn't seem to like me any more.

There's another nurse, a male one, there who just obviously doesn't have much patience for me and is sarcastic with me. I don't blame them at all as I can be a difficult person to get along with, but it is disappointing when it happens and I have to accept it's my fault sadly :(

These things never work out well for me. I get on well enough with a young guy there, and a lady about my age. I seem to get on okay with the ladies I work with. But the rest of them don't like me, I swear. All the nurses stare at me like I've got two heads. It's probably going to be one of those jobs I have to leave for a new one just because I'm too unpopular.
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Lol today my boss gave a stern talk to me and my coworker - mostly me since I'm the one managing the project supposedly. He said I wasn't updating the schedule diligently, and I said I couldn't keep on top of that because I had to do actual work within the project in addition to managing it. He also freaked out about how we were a little bit behind our projected timeline of milestones - both the timeline and milestones I pulled out of my *** based on my 0 years 0 months of experience, because he was pressuring me to make a plan to show our clients.

At the time I asked him wtf are milestones, and how do I formulate them, and he gave me some long-winded bull**** answer. I'm starting to notice a pattern where every time I ask him a question about the actual content of the job, he would give me some long-winded bull****, since he can't come right out and admit he doesn't know either and undermine my confidence. Today I remembered that during the job interview, he had said very confidently that our company has some "winning formula" methodology based on decades of experience. I'm starting to think that might have been an exaggeration to get me to accept the offer.

I've also been noticing in this field that when I ask people questions, they tend to answer with a long rambly spiel and at the end I'm not sure if they've answered my question sufficiently or not. There's a lot of "On the one hand, ..., but on the other hand, ..." type of stuff. I don't want to jump to the conclusion that it's all bull****, but it's like, damnit can one person give me a straight answer just once??

Hopefully I can make up my mind whether to resign by the end of this week. This **** is not good for my mental health. But at least I'm not getting triggered into dissociation in the office anymore. It's still hella distracting and unsanitary, though, people coughing up phlegm and whatnot all out in the open.
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My boss asked me if I'd be willing to stay in a hotel next week and work out of a different location. The travel pay for my company is really good and I said yes.

Didn't think about next week being Valentine's Day, so my wife isn't too happy about it. Also my work car still isn't running. Been driving my truck to work and it's been running fine besides leaking coolant. But it's 29 years old and I bought it for $1300 last year. Never driven it any real distance, so hopefully it'll make the trip.
My boss asked me if I'd be willing to stay in a hotel next week and work out of a different location. The travel pay for my company is really good and I said yes.

Didn't think about next week being Valentine's Day, so my wife isn't too happy about it. Also my work car still isn't running. Been driving my truck to work and it's been running fine besides leaking coolant. But it's 29 years old and I bought it for $1300 last year. Never driven it any real distance, so hopefully it'll make the trip.

Ended up being too shorthanded to have me go anywhere for now. Disappointed to miss out on the extra money.
Currently feeling quite inadequate as it pertains to the job market. I'm currently in a mindset of desperation to leave my current job and to find a new one but all the listings that I look at online are highly uninteresting and I question my will to do those jobs.

Currently, I feel as though nothing is right for me and that I'll never make it in this world.
Traded a coworker a long night tonight for a long night Friday because I have an eye doctor appointment tomorrow I have to wake up early for. Someone called in, so now I get a long night tonight anyway. And of course we're getting out almost an hour late.
The liftgate is broken in my truck and won't be fixed until Monday. I have the option of running it anyway tonight or driving our junk substitute truck.


My truck:
Governed at 70mph
Has side door
Can open back door without operating the liftgate to quickly grab stuff off the back
Obviously liftgate isn't working, so will have to carry everything by hand off and on the truck

Sub truck:
Governed at 72mph
No side door
Can't access back door without running liftgate all the way down and then all the way back up after and it's very slow like 30 seconds each way


Forehead Face Nose Hair Cheek


Me calculating which option will get me off work earlier on a Friday night.
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I shouldn't be so bothered about it all but I'm getting a bit depressed about social stuff at my job.

I'm a man who works with four women and everybody says 'Good evening ladies!' as they walk past us. I'm like: "I'M HERE TOO!" :cry: but I guess I don't even warrant an acknowledgement. Same as yesterday, my supervisor individually said goodbye to everybody EXCEPT ME. :mad: This is the same boss who flat refused to say hello to me when we first met and just made an 'ew!' face at me. Also yesterday one of the nurses called me a freak when she thought I couldn't hear her.

But I understand I'm difficult to get to know and I look a bit of a rum 'un so I can't have too many complaints. It's just sad really as I quite like the people I work with. It's a shame but I have to accept that this job is too socially demanding for me and I need to find a more solitary occupation. I need to do this before I cause any more upset for other people.
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think i made a mistake leaving my last job for this one.
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