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i don't expect very many posts with this thread..

but that's okay.. it's for everyone that works and just need a place to just post whatever's on their mind.
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1 pair every year, oh wow do you go through workboots that fast?? Ariat has some kickass looking cowboy boots!! I was ogling them online over the summer (too expensive to ship to me, and just too expensive in general), they look pretty good quality though.

There's actually a few shoe repair shops near me. I guess for older shoes with stitched soles (instead of cemented/glued) people still go to get them resoled and stuff. Nowadays most shoes seem to be glued, seems a better deal to just buy a new pair instead of getting them repaired (not sure if cemented soles can even be resoled). I wish I had stuff from long ago that can be repaired and reworn. It's so much better for the environment.

No, I'm really not that hard on them at my current job. It's 90% driving, but with self unload you want safety toe, waterproof, and non slip. Most of the wear comes from dragging heavy pallets on concrete that ends up wearing the heels. I switched to pull ons because I caught my laces on stuff constantly. It's a little weird walking in them at first, but you get used to it. I actually prefer them now over lace up boots for my job.

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I ended up just getting another pair of Ariats that are identical to the ones I already have. Kinda wanted something more plain and a bit cheaper, but all the other ones I tried on didn't pass my slip test. I try sliding around the floor at the store to test the non slip. I guess these are made for oilfield work or something, says oil exploration on the tag whatever that is. But the grip on the bottom is crazy good. I don't want to get out here in the rain dragging a pallet and slip.

Didn't know that about the stitched soles. There's a few boot stores in this area I guess that probably do sole repair and replacement. I wonder if they can get the super grippy non slip soles.
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No, I'm really not that hard on them at my current job. It's 90% driving, but with self unload you want safety toe, waterproof, and non slip. Most of the wear comes from dragging heavy pallets on concrete that ends up wearing the heels. I switched to pull ons because I caught my laces on stuff constantly. It's a little weird walking in them at first, but you get used to it. I actually prefer them now over lace up boots for my job.

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I ended up just getting another pair of Ariats that are identical to the ones I already have. Kinda wanted something more plain and a bit cheaper, but all the other ones I tried on didn't pass my slip test. I try sliding around the floor at the store to test the non slip. I guess these are made for oilfield work or something, says oil exploration on the tag whatever that is. But the grip on the bottom is crazy good. I don't want to get out here in the rain dragging a pallet and slip.

Didn't know that about the stitched soles. There's a few boot stores in this area I guess that probably do sole repair and replacement. I wonder if they can get the super grippy non slip soles.
"Pull-ons" as in Chelsea-type workboots (Is that a thing lol)? I have a pair of Chelseas with pretty thick/stiff leather - not sure how to describe, basically the kind of leather that doesn't stretch much / don't need break in - and it's a pain to pull them on and off, esp without a pull tab at the back. I was hunting for a second-hand pair of boots for a while and saw a lot of people selling their Chelseas in semi-new condition because of this problem lol. Although they do look nice.

And yeah I read there's a difference between anti-slip and non-slip, but I can't remember what it was. Kind of like waterproof vs. water resistant - one is like crazy expensive and runs up to a few thousand+, the other kind is like upwards of a few hundred and limited protection.

I'd assume shoe repair places have all kinds of soles, it's just a matter of price. You can probably hunt down some nice Vibram soles yourself and just pay the cost of having them switch it out for you. I've also seen people online slip-proofing their own boots with sandpaper and stuff, but if it's a nice pair you probably don't want to risk damaging it with some crazy DIY lol.
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"Pull-ons" as in Chelsea-type workboots (Is that a thing lol)? I have a pair of Chelseas with pretty thick/stiff leather - not sure how to describe, basically the kind of leather that doesn't stretch much / don't need break in - and it's a pain to pull them on and off, esp without a pull tab at the back. I was hunting for a second-hand pair of boots for a while and saw a lot of people selling their Chelseas in semi-new condition because of this problem lol. Although they do look nice.

And yeah I read there's a difference between anti-slip and non-slip, but I can't remember what it was. Kind of like waterproof vs. water resistant - one is like crazy expensive and runs up to a few thousand+, the other kind is like upwards of a few hundred and limited protection.

I'd assume shoe repair places have all kinds of soles, it's just a matter of price. You can probably hunt down some nice Vibram soles yourself and just pay the cost of having them switch it out for you. I've also seen people online slip-proofing their own boots with sandpaper and stuff, but if it's a nice pair you probably don't want to risk damaging it with some crazy DIY lol.
Had to look Chelsea boots up. Similar style, but I think western pull on work boots would be the name of the style. Like this:

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I've talked to a few of my coworkers on the phone about this over the last couple weeks. Being that we drive trucks around all night calling each other to pass the time is common. But only one other coworker and I wear these kind. A few wear lace up work boots or steel toe shoes and several just wear plain tennis shoes. Which seems insane to me. I would've lost toes already not to mention soaked feet every time it rains.
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Had to look Chelsea boots up. Similar style, but I think western pull on work boots would be the name of the style. Like this:

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I've talked to a few of my coworkers on the phone about this over the last couple weeks. Being that we drive trucks around all night calling each other to pass the time is common. But only one other coworker and I wear these kind. A few wear lace up work boots or steel toe shoes and several just wear plain tennis shoes. Which seems insane to me. I would've lost toes already not to mention soaked feet every time it rains.
Cool look!! I can't tell which part is stretchy for you to get them on though.

I thought your company had policy for mandatory steel-toe and that's why you get the allowance? But I can see how it might not be the best (or most comfortable) for driving. There's also driving shoes which basically look like tennis shoes, but I heard they have especially thin soles (or maybe they're thin everywhere, idk) and you can feel everything under the ground when you walk in them. Would give great sensitivity on the pedals, and look kind of posh too:

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I'll give this one bonus points for a comfortable looking shoe that also looks as sleek as an expensive car. I think my feet would be nice and aerodynamic in those. They would just glide through the windy days like butter.
I'll be honest. I don't even know what day that my company Christmas party is on. I threw that thing in trash without even looking.
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Today whilst getting something from the cupboard I saw someone at work that I'd never seen before. This person got the wrong idea from our conversation. They are not impressed so far with some things I can tell that from what he said and how he was looking at things.

He assumed I worked in the kitchen. I said no I do the cleaning. I do the cleaning but not down here. If you find anything dirty here it's not in my section ( a staff member before has just assumed something that wasn't being done was my job). He repeated " not in your section". I said that does sound like I don't care but I can't keep cleaning someone else's section when I have too much to do in my own. But to my words not in my section and it sounds like I don't care he said "and you don't, that's okay" with a face not impressed.

I have never said "I don't clean down here, so if you find anything dirty it's not in my section" to anyone before; I feel like crying when I see how things are left sometimes, "after they've been cleaned" just because of his body language; the way he was looking at things and his disapproval it just came out.

Then I remembered that show Undercover Boss, I think that's what it is called, and just was thinking how my words "not in my section" would be perceived when it is the complete opposite. At jobs I have missed out breaks to get the work done and done to the best of my ability.

I love my job and I give all that I can. I don't like it when people get the wrong idea about me.
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I'll give this one bonus points for a comfortable looking shoe that also looks as sleek as an expensive car. I think my feet would be nice and aerodynamic in those. They would just glide through the windy days like butter.
A pair of shoes that glide through things like butter sounds like a recipe for falling on your *** lol! Back in middle school I only had flat-soled sneakers and would walk to school in winter. I learned to do this shuffling thing on the iced pavement to keep my balance. Not great for the soles. I mostly wear boots now, and I'm kind of picky about chunky soles. Some of those indoor floors can be damn slippery.

Today whilst getting something from the cupboard I saw someone at work that I'd never seen before. This person got the wrong idea from our conversation. They are not impressed so far with some things I can tell that from what he said and how he was looking at things.

He assumed I worked in the kitchen. I said no I do the cleaning. I do the cleaning but not down here. If you find anything dirty here it's not in my section ( a staff member before has just assumed something that wasn't being done was my job). He repeated " not in your section". I said that does sound like I don't care but I can't keep cleaning someone else's section when I have too much to do in my own. But to my words not in my section and it sounds like I don't care he said "and you don't, that's okay" with a face not impressed.

I have never said "I don't clean down here, so if you find anything dirty it's not in my section" to anyone before; I feel like crying when I see how things are left sometimes, "after they've been cleaned" just because of his body language; the way he was looking at things and his disapproval it just came out.

Then I remembered that show Undercover Boss, I think that's what it is called, and just was thinking how my words "not in my section" would be perceived when it is the complete opposite. At jobs I have missed out breaks to get the work done and done to the best of my ability.

I love my job and I give all that I can. I don't like it when people get the wrong idea about me.
Did he start off accusing you of not doing your job, or did he just ask you, "Do you work in the kitchen?" and you volunteered all this info yourself? I feel like some people in the workplace are just waiting to catch you out, and it's probably best not to tell them anything unless you need to. Especially if they're not your manager anyway.
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My sister, who's a couple of years younger than me, got her first job not that long ago. She now works going into elderly folks homes to take care of them and do their bidding. So good for her. 🎉The only thing that's weird is that she wears black nursing garments to work... like sis, you work taking care of the living, not the dead!

Her agency is desperately hiring... I think these kinds of nursing jobs are women dominated though. But it seems like a good way to practice social skills and sounds like a good beginner job as a whole.
I told my team leader I’m starting a treatment program for generalised anxiety, and we are mapping it out first. It will cause me to be away from work a little over an hour once or twice a month, so I figured it would be best to just tell him. He said that was good, and sort of cheered on me.
Feels weird that he now walks around knowing this about me. It was unexpected that he took it so well.
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Woke to a call from my boss asking me to cover for one of the delivery guys who hadn’t showed up…said I’d shower & call her to pick me up & then right when I was about to step in the shower she texted saying he showed up late
Management (as always) are lying, manipulative, and incompetent POS's.
Day before long weekend, coworker posts in group chat that he "won't get any rest" because his young kids will bug him to do stuff, and he actually prefers going in to work over staying home with his kids. The boss responds with a laughing emoji.

Not sure if this guy is just trying to suck up to the boss or if he truly feels this way. Either way, **** this ****, wtf are these people. I feel like an alien in this garbage corporate culture.
the number of people leaving the companies im at is astounding.

the company i was at before this, first there was the guy i was replacing. then 7 people in my department left over the next 2+ years. including 1 manager though that was a inter company move. other departments were struggling too though.

at my current job i cant think of a single person who definitely wont leave. since i joined just 6months ago, 3 people left and now a manager is also leaving. they had almost every non manager leave before i joined and now 2 replacements left in less than 6 months. i wouldnt be surprised at any resignations at this point.
I finally got the HR people to register me for the app that shows all our hours & let you book time off, we’ve been using this app for 2 years & only now do I have access. The nice thing is the calendar syncs with my phone calendar so I don’t have to program my shifts anymore
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Yea, and I briefly thought about switching the default workplace home page to the ancient "Internet Explorer is evil" web page but I didn't want to draw too much attention from wandering eyes.
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Y'all ever have this thing where, you need some info to do your job, and you ask people for it. Your company is super disorganised so you don't even know who to ask for what, so you just crowdsource. And then people only give you half of the info you need (maybe they don't know the other half, or maybe they just don't want to bother). Then you kind of wait because you don't want to be like aggressively hounding them down for it. Then later your work gets delayed and they come to you and they're like, "Why haven't you finished this thing yet?"

I want to turn around and be like, "Why do YOU think?" But then I'm not an a-hole so I kind of just sheepishly laugh and go, "Ohhh, haha, not sure, I'll double check..." and then scramble to finish it with half the information.

I'm wondering if I should tell my boss about this. I'm not going to name names or anything, but it's not that hard for people to just say they don't know and direct me to somebody who knows or to a source or something instead of just leaving me hanging. Not cool, man.
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I work in a liquor store. Before my boss left today he asked me if I shopped at a competitor liquor store…I thought I misheard him but he asked if I shop at Safeway Liquor Store so I said not in a while & then he proceeded to give me $20 in giftcards for there, lol. I can’t say I’ve ever been encouraged to go shop at the competition by a boss while on shift, haha
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