I guess it doesnt matter who is asking the question, but its the type of question where the answer seems obvious to me. I look after two adult males in my home with developmental disabilities, i am a supportive roommate. I want to take another job looking after someone at lunch and dinner time. My boyfriend asked me what i was going to do about my two roommates at those times. I was annoyed because nothing would change with them, i would feed them either before or after i go out, or leave them something to eat, ( keep in mind that these two roommates are fairly independent and can go out on their own or be left alone for periods of time)and are able to make food for themselves, i just like to feed them so i know what they are eating. And my boyfriend knows this.