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i was just sitting on a bench at mal one day , all alone and binging on all kinds of foods, just having a pig buisness and minding it. like virginity shields was on the max. but then..

this guy comes near to me n sits freaking right almost exactly next to me!! i fuking had to gather all my picnick up from there immediately! bcs i was embarassed! and thats so disturbing cos i wanted to keep eating!!

whats the worst n i almost chocked..he started talking!!!

basically not gonna go in details but i almost died.. I WASNT PREPARED FOR NO SOCIAL INTERACTIONS AT ALL! >_< it was awk convo ofc but fast forward..i was already starting to get nerves up n looking how to get the fck away from there n suddenly bam he asks for my number!! i just couldnt grasp what the **** to say in such situations n how do ppl get away, i also thought its no diva time or wtv either so i was just like okay..:| u_u'

nyways

i thought hes gonna forget n everything n ill return to my reg life but HELL DAMN HE CALLS ME AFTER LIKE 15 MINS ALREADY! :S
i fkn wasnt picking up no freaking way..i thought watta fkn stranger gtfo

but time went on and he started to texting me like crazy n i started to reply n mess around with him a bit tbh bcs..GUY IS JUST UNREAL

we added each other on fb either, i thought wtvs i have nothing to do anyways, maybe will practise socialising with real ppl more, since im so secluded lately n all, little did i knew...>______>

all he ever says is: hey, what ur doing, oooh and hey or something 1-2 word like that..
like i say something, then im watching him intensively typing something and its..

"yeah"

i was so done with this guy i just stopped bothering anymore but then! it had unexpected results, he suddenly msgs me n comes up with more than 3 word msg =0 which was smthng about "why u dint msg me for 3 days??" it just blew my roof off..

then he bugs me to reply sooner if im away or dont pay attention to him n im just wattehfuks cos other times i have to wait for his insanely important input for like 10 -20 mins

and basically everytime im talking with this guy im just..


i once asked about his fav pokemons, he said: pikechi and choicesar..

also..

studies java and programing.
gets virus bcs he had no antisoftware installed.
whipes aall the hd away..
=')

i just dunno what to do with this guy..he also wants to meet me all the time, ive avoided this effectively so far tho..
 

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I bet he got nothing better to do. He also sounds like he didn't know what to reply.

Just ignore him. Make sure you didn't give him your address otherwise he'll show up in front of your door.
 

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I bet he got nothing better to do. He also sounds like he didn't know what to reply.

Just ignore him. Make sure you didn't give him your address otherwise he'll show up in front of your door.
lmao!! thats what im afraid of, so theres noway im gonna tell him ever!..maybe im overthinking but he seems a bit creepy too :T

also idk, when he approached me he talked quit alot besides 99% of time it is him who pm me in a first place so idk wth is wrong with him immediately afterwards? :/

judging from his profile and 1st impresion he seems pretty normal btw but then he does all those weird things n i dunno what to think..

anyone had similar experience?
 

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hah..dont think hes a necessarily stalker however but idk hes just so unreal -_- cant really tell everything here..


i kind of made fun of him yesterday n now i feel a bit bad tho, i think ill talk to him one more time to make it up kinda n then try to bug off somehow :T
 

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hah..dont think hes a necessarily stalker however but idk hes just so unreal -_- cant really tell everything here..

i kind of made fun of him yesterday n now i feel a bit bad tho, i think ill talk to him one more time to make it up kinda n then try to bug off somehow :T
You sound like you're worry but at the same time you're kind of interested in him. You kinda like him or somethin?:D
 

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lol nooooo..wtf :/ im just kind of thinking he seems like a good guy and all, kind of dont wanna be *** to him altho its so tempting at times if u know what i mean @[email protected]'

ive just had bad experiences before so.. P;

and the thing when he said why u dont msg me for 3 days fe..whats up with that?? o_O srsly ive probably had sa for such long time idk how to be friends anymore..but is this rly normal to say like that? we know each other for a ~month? but rly..i cant recal single thing ive said that wouldve made him think im even into him that much :S

no srsly that startled me af tbh..cos in those days i already forgot about him lols.. but i couldnt have even imagined that he there will be starting counting days or something lool..e.e
 

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Things i learned in this thread: If a strange person who probably has coats made of leather strips he obtained from skinning the victims he keeps in his basement comes over and creeps on you when you are clearly not wanting to be bothered. Don't give him your number.
 

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i think u have a point there but im talking about more of a this kinda person..
So like a child molester (if the guy in that video was real... He'd be a child molester for sure), not a cereal killer? I still wouldn't give him my number...
 

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If you feel like this person is making you uncomfortable, tell him. And if he continues to, tell stop talking to him and tell him to stop contacting you. If he continues contacting you, you might need to block him or change your number.
 

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:blah
 

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So like a child molester (if the guy in that video was real... He'd be a child molester for sure), not a cereal killer? I still wouldn't give him my number...
no i think he might be cereal killer, he looks like he could go that far..

If you feel like this person is making you uncomfortable, tell him. And if he continues to, tell stop talking to him and tell him to stop contacting you. If he continues contacting you, you might need to block him or change your number.
im not sure about this yet @[email protected] but is it possible to detect ur address from number??

well excuse me but this is my space where to talk atm nd u dont have to read it btw...
 

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im not sure about this yet @[email protected] but is it possible to detect ur address from number??
It is. You can look up the number and see the address of the person the phone number is registered to. You should definitely ask why he's acting weird though, but maybe he doesn't really know how to socialize either.

If you feel threatened, you should be careful.
 

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well excuse me but this is my space where to talk atm nd u dont have to read it btw...
sorry I was possessed by evil spirits at the time :um if something doesn't feel right its probably not gut feeling can tell more than you can see, he seems a bit possessive he could be praying a bit on your loneliness, mayby he's just really awkward and likes you....
 
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