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Sometimes we can't express how much we love our partners(or how much we don't).

So this thread is for expressing love,gratitude,anger,hatred,bitterness,longing, kindness, and more.

Perhaps one day you can share it with your crush or your bf/gf,wife/husband,fiance. etc.

Perhaps it's been premature to say these things you feel or you feel like they shouldn't be said at all :D. So say it on this thread!
 

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i'm gettin tired of watching youtube, can we please watch harry potter
 

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"Would you like to have dinner with me?"
 

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Oh there are so many things I want to say to him, but keep to myself.

- I love you
- I want to be facebook official. I'd like to post pictures of us together. Not to show off.. or yeah, maybe a little, but mainly because I feel you're that important to me. Also so that I can remember how long we've been together. For anniversaries and things like that.
- I'm actually loaded with money, but it's all reserved for a home and the furniture that will go in it.
- I wish we had more sex, are we both just being careful so the other doesn't feel pushed, at least I am some times, or have you lost a little interest?
 

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I feel so taken advantage of sometimes. Please try to get a job. In the 8 to 10 hours a day you spend playing video games, watching Netflix and sleeping while I am at work, you could be putting in effort to find a job, but you don't. I am not your mother. This is not okay. We are supposed to support each other as husband and wife but I feel like I am married to a child and have no support at all.

Of course communicating with him about this makes no difference. I wish I could say this to him in a way that he will finally make a change, understanding that if he doesn't he is going to slowly erode my ability to trust him as my marriage partner, as well as my ability to respect him as a man. If I saw any evidence of effort of any kind it would be different. Even if he got a part time job working at McDonald's I'd be happy because at least he was putting in honest effort and work. I work really hard to support us and it hurts coming home and finding the apartment a mess and him asleep or in front of the computer/tv every single day.
 

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I wish I wasn't such a boring conversational partner.
 

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bring me a coconut creme pie shake after work
 

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I was naive into thinking that something could happen...of course it wasn't going to.

I hate being this way. I hate having my infatuation always be this strong flame that burns me alive when it doesn't come to fruition. it happens way too often. Learn the reality of what love is, how it should develop, how it's sustained...because you really are clueless. it's not a runaway train...your feelings that run off the track means nothing. and the fact that your romanticize it so ****ing much is so hypocritical. grow up already. maybe if you actually tried to meet people in the real world and had an ounce of self esteem, you wouldn't think like this. you don't have the authority to talk about a subject you know nothing about. keep your immature, childish feelings in check next time.

ok this was more of a message to me, but yeah.
 

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Omg, I'm feeling a lot despite my poker face. I'm feeling a torrent of feelings, emotions awash. Conflicting, good and bad. You may have simply come across an emotionall girl or a girl who's suffering from some emotional malfunctioning, which may or may not affect what we do. It can have an affect on what we think. I think I'm a certain way, I doubt I'm the way which would make you feel ultimately fulfilled and uber happy. Just my sappy as hell .O2 cents.

About emotions: which emotions? Insecurity, doubt. Story of my life. What ifs still come up. Worries about needs, wants. To quell the doubt alone is something I'm not sure I'm completely capable of. I need assistance, in any way. Or a reality check.

And thanks @meepie for this thread. Awesome idea and cathartic might I say.

I really wish I didn't say all that. Crazy psycho***** comes to mind. Emotions get the best of me.

Edit: I do know what you feel, sometimes I completely forget. :(
 

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I'm glad you have a loving bf who isn't me. I would never be able to make you happy like he does. I am not worthy of you. I am sorry for even being in the same room as you. You must be disgusted. I am not worthy. I am not worthy.
 

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Can this be for any partners or crushes in the future? "Yes jsgt" says meepie. Ok then...I want to tell you..."You'll get tired of me eventually, and I know this...so I hope you're ok with me keeping you at arms length until you prove me wrong". Also..."You're kinda dumb for wanting me in the first place". :b
 
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