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I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. I met him when I was pregnant with the oldest. He knew I was pregnant. He was there for the birth of him ect.
His biological father, who hasn't seen him since he was a few months old (he will be 6 in October) says he doesn't think he will be a good father, pretty much wants nothing to do with him. He said this because I asked what kind of a role does he want to play in his life.
He has a DAD, who has been there since day ONE. I don't want him coming around all the time, or taking my son anywhere. I simply want him to know where he came from, and know that side of his family. (He doesn't know yet though, this is all pre-planning.)
How can someone knowingly have a child and NOT be curious about him, and wonder about him, and want to see what he's like?
His biological father, who hasn't seen him since he was a few months old (he will be 6 in October) says he doesn't think he will be a good father, pretty much wants nothing to do with him. He said this because I asked what kind of a role does he want to play in his life.
He has a DAD, who has been there since day ONE. I don't want him coming around all the time, or taking my son anywhere. I simply want him to know where he came from, and know that side of his family. (He doesn't know yet though, this is all pre-planning.)
How can someone knowingly have a child and NOT be curious about him, and wonder about him, and want to see what he's like?