Darn it, I hate to bring this up, but does anyone else feel like if they just lost some weight their lives would be better? I notice so many of you are good looking and I wonder if anyone struggles with their darned weight the way I do. I am able to do social things despite my weight. When I'm already feeling depressed is when I think about it, then I think, if only I'd lose some weight I'd have a better job, more friends, a happier marriage (even though my husband finds me beautiful). Does anyone really accept themselves, knowing their body mass number? or healthy weight for height number, is higher than it should be? This is very hard for me to talk about, because I don't want to admit I have a problem, but if I don't, I just sit here feeling sorry for myself.