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Hello there. I'm Kris.
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This would probably be more like an "outline". I don't really have a deffinite "ideal" man. If he actually loves me, then I'll love him. : )

His age - at least 10(or 20) years older than me. Preferably around 30. Yeah, I like old men. ;D

Nationality - Japanese, or at least lives in Japan.

Hair color and length - Black or dyed cool colors. Either really long or chin length. Eccentric hair style would be nice.

Eye color - "Black" or gray/blue.

Skin color - Pale.

Height? - at least 5'10"

What kind of body type? - fit(no six pack required, just in shape), slim, and tall.

Clothing style? - ...Visual Kei, rock, punk, or emo. A little on the feminine side.

What kind of personality? - sweet, doting, protective, laid back, teasing...

Is he virgin? - Yes, but it's fine if he's not.

Does he want a lot of sex? - a moderate amount...

Does he have a lot of friends? - A few good friends.

Does he have social anxiety? - No.

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - If he does, that's fine.

His religion - An Ambler like me. Or Buhhdist.

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - Drinks and smokes if he wants, but nothing that would get him in trouble or cause problems.

Does he have any hobbies? - Reading, travling, etc.

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? -
He doesn't mind my random mood swings
Introverted(or slightly) like me
Likes cats
Doesn't mind spending most days inside.

Your age: 16
 

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Hello there. I'm Kris.
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I've no doubt there's a completely logical explanation for this, but thanks for the smile, nonetheless~ :b
lol I plan on living in Japan. :teeth It does look funny, now that you've pointed it out.^^
 

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I dont fit any of these descriptions, but what someone considers as ideal isnt always what someone ends up liking, in that point in time. These type of threads only induce competition and comparison, which might not good for the insecure folk that inhabit this forum.
Well I dont fit any of these descriptions either, but it is not a big deal, it shouldnt be taken too seriously. I myself filled it just for fun and it doesnt mean anything - You could show me a picture of a girl that is exact opposite of what i described and I could very well be into her as much.
 

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His age - 21 - 45

Nationality - doesn't matter

Hair color and length - doesn't matter

Eye color - doesn't matter

Skin color - white

Height? - 5'8" - 6'5"

What kind of body type? - slim or muscular

Clothing style? doesn't matter

What kind of personality? - nice, honest, responsible, etc

Is he virgin? - doesn't matter

Does he want a lot of sex? - YES

Does he have a lot of friends? - doesn't matter

Does he have social anxiety? - doesn't matter

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - no

His religion - doesn't matter

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - no drugs

Does he have any hobbies? - doesn't matter

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? -

Your age: 20
 

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Retired Bingo Cook
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I don't think I would have any chance at all. :(
 

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its interesting how race-conscious (skin, nationality) most girls preferences are.... I wonder why that is.......Where as men seem to care less about those traits.
 

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What I don't understand is why all these "ideal" boyfriends are relatively attainable.

Personally, the boy of my dreams is someone who can effortlessly jump two meters in the air, knows how to use a sword within minutes of picking it up, and apparently will never turn thirty.
 

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This is describe what we want in men :)

His age - Around mine (two years older is my limit~)

Nationality - w/e

Hair color and length - Color doesn't matter, but I'd like him to have fabulous beautiful hair that goes around to the shoulder

Eye color - w/e

Skin color - I have a thing for Caucasians but I guess it's w/e

Height? - Taller than me

What kind of body type? - Not obese

Clothing style? w/e (meaning not hideous or ridiculous; he wears what makes him comfortable, kind of how I'll throw on whatever is comfy!)

What kind of personality? - Geeky, intelligent, funny/sweet, GENTLE-MANLY, a certain je ne sais quoi :b I guess he's just in-tune with me.

Is he virgin? - Yes please

Does he want a lot of sex? - I'm waiting until marriage, so after then, w/e

Does he have a lot of friends? - If he wants, though I'm obviously not inclined to want to hang out with them all

Does he have social anxiety? - w/e

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - w/e

His religion - Jesus/God-lover. "Religion" complicates things.

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - No please.

Does he have any hobbies? - Video games? Reading? Etc.?

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? - Likes cats, and some introversion is always hawt. Likes the kinds of music I like, plz. C: Obviously him being a real Christian is very important to me.

Your age: 18, if you didn't see that under my avatar.
I lol'd at this matter of penis size. I understand that this is just for fun; I don't want to be really specific about anything when I can't predict what kind of guy my man is going to be in actuality.
 

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His age: 24-32

Nationality -Doesn't matter

Hair color and length -Hair color doesn't matter.Length:Short,clean cut hair.Not over-gelled

Eye color - I <3 dark eyes

Skin color - Doesn't matter but pref. tan/brown, black

Height? -I'm a tall girl, 5'9", so I like a taller guy (6 ft and above)

What kind of body type? - surfer type...you know that beachy look with the tanned skin, good abs and arms...ruffled hair :)

Clothing style? Doesn't matter

What kind of personality? - assertive,introvert,serious & intense,kind-hearted,wears his heart on his sleeve

Is he virgin? -He should be a virgin,pref. be sexually inexperienced, like me

Does he want a lot of sex? - His sex drive should be more or less similar to mine

Does he have a lot of friends? - Not many. Few close friends would be okay.

Does he have social anxiety? -Ideally,yes

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - Nothing too serious

His religion -Hindu,Buddhist,Spiritual

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - NO , NO and NO

Does he have any hobbies? -Yeah,why not? I like different hobbies.One can enjoy a wider variety of activities that way. I don't care if they're talented or not.

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? - Respectful towards women,reliable, level-headed, not too ambitious,shouldn't take me for granted.Would be a huge plus if he's a vegetarian/vegan, teetotaler.Should keep himself active. And it wouldn't hurt if he were a great kisser!

Your age: 25
 

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His age - 18-24

Nationality - Doesn't matter (But guys with accents get bonus points :yes)

Hair color and length - Brunette, not bald

Eye color - Something pretty :3

Skin color - Preferably pale I guess

Height? - Taller than me (5'7" +)

What kind of body type? - Idk, not skinnier than me & not too muscular

Clothing style? Doesn't matter

What kind of personality? - Spontaneous, makes me laugh, has goals, intelligent, open-minded

Is he virgin? - Preferably

Does he want a lot of sex? - Yes - playful, kinky, romantic sex :b

Does he have a lot of friends? - No

Does he have social anxiety? - Doesn't matter

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - Sure

His religion - Preferably agnostic, but it doesn't really matter

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - Drinking is okay, but not too much

Does he have any hobbies? - Video games, cuddling me c:

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? - Someone I can feel comfortable around

Your age: 17
i would be perfect for you ;) babie

btw im moving to masschusetts in a couple of month couple

jkjkjkjkjkjkjnkjkjkjkjkjkjkjkjk:b

not really.......

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This is describe what we want in men :)

His age - 24-46 ya I've dated older men lol ;)

Nationality - it doesn't matter

Hair color and length - once again, don't matter

Eye color - don't matter

Skin color - don't matter

Height? - He has to be taller then me otherwise there is no attraction

What kind of body type? - I've always liked bigger men, but any body type really....no toothpick lookin men though lol

Clothing style? doesn't necessarily need to be "in" style but needs style none the less.

What kind of personality? - he has to be funny, or have a good sense of humor, laid back, trustworthy, and all that other good stuff.

Is he virgin? - LoL certainly not, if that's the case he'd probably be to young for me.

Does he want a lot of sex? - he'll want it when I do LOL

Does he have a lot of friends? - he's he life of the party.

Does he have social anxiety? - no, because he'd help me with mine.

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - defiantly not.

His religion - doesn't matter what religion, as long as he doesn't try to push it in me.

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? -yes, yes, and, yes....if that's what he likes
Does he have any hobbies? - Who doesn't.

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? Yes, that my first love was all these things and more. But my ideal bf would never leave me for a french chick!
Your age:23
 

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i,ll keep it simple, just looking for a nice lady,that i can talk with and that is fun to be around. yes we all have are problems, but working throught it with a friend can make everything better.and if it leads to more then just a friend,then great.i know people have wants, but if you close the door on real people, then your missing what really matters.
 

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This is describe what we want in men

His age - around my age, 20

Nationality - Polish or something, or British, but I'm not a stickler on that

Hair color and length - Brunettes are my usual, but once again don't care very much. Shaggy longer hair but not too long. If it is long, well kept.

Eye color - don't care.

Skin color - don't care. Blue is nice, jk.

Height? - also don't care, 2 guys I liked most were 5'7

What kind of body type? - Strong, broad shoulders, muscle.

Clothing style? I like emo type dress, or nice dressy type

What kind of personality? - Mysterious, tough, able to roll with the punches, genuine, mature, knows what he wants, confident

Is he virgin? - don't care

Does he want a lot of sex? - yeah I want someone who has at least a decent sex drive

Does he have a lot of friends? - quality not quantity

Does he have social anxiety? - doesn't matter

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - preferably no

His religion - as long as he is reasonable, down to earth and PRO CHOICE, I don't care

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - no drugs, rarely drink, no smoking

Does he have any hobbies? - um yeah

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? - he should be a vampire

Your age: 20
 
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