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Since there was one that the guys were doing, here's one for the girls. :)

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Eye color -

Skin color -

Height? -

What kind of body type? -

Clothing style?

What kind of personality? -

Is he virgin? -

Does he want a lot of sex? -

Does he have a lot of friends? -

Does he have social anxiety? -

Does he have any other mental illnesses? -

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Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? -

Does he have any hobbies? -

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? -

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My Ideal Guy

His age - 21 to 25 years old

Nationality - American or Canadian

Hair color and length - Brown (light or dark, doesn't matter), length doesn't past shoulders

Eye color - Hazel

Skin color - Tan or pale

Height? - 5'7" to 5'11"

What kind of body type? - Slim and slender

Clothing style? Casual

What kind of personality? - Funny, nice, polite, smart, charming, trustworthy, and reliable

Is he virgin? - Yes

Does he want a lot of sex? - From me, yeah. ;D

Does he have a lot of friends? - Very few

Does he have social anxiety? - Yeah

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - Split personality disorder, please

His religion - Tao- or Buddh-ism

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - Drinks and does weed

Does he have any hobbies? - Games, listens to the same music as I

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Your age: 21
 

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well, I'm no girl, but I'll participate anyway.

as long as I find him attractive, I don't really have any physical specifics. I'm attracted to different types. It's the intangibles that make or break the deal.
 

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My Ideal Guy

His age - 21 to 25 years old

Nationality - American or Canadian

Hair color and length - Brown (light or dark, doesn't matter), length doesn't past shoulders

Eye color - Hazel

Skin color - Tan or pale

Height? - 5'7" to 5'11"

What kind of body type? - Slim and slender

Clothing style? Casual

What kind of personality? - Funny, nice, polite, smart, charming, trustworthy, and reliable

Is he virgin? - Yes

Does he want a lot of sex? - From me, yeah. ;D

Does he have a lot of friends? - Very few

Does he have social anxiety? - Yeah

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - Split personality disorder, please

His religion - Tao- or Buddh-ism

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - Drinks and does weed

Does he have any hobbies? - Games, listens to the same music as I

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal SO? -

Your age: 21
Where do I apply?
 

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His age - 27-40

Nationality - Any Nationality. I'm open. Race is not an issue for me.

Hair color and length - Any hair color.

Skin color - Any skin color....Black or White.

Height? - I'm a 1.63 so anything taller than me

What kind of body type? - Nobody's perfect. Depends on the guy.

Clothing style? Casual dress, don't like men who dress fancy

What kind of personality? - Caring, Nice, Patient, Thoughtful, Friendly, Romantic, Manly, takes charge.

Is he virgin? - Doesn't matter

Does he want a lot of sex? - Yes Yes Yes!! :)

Does he have a lot of friends? - Doesn't matter if is he doesn't have many friends

Does he have social anxiety? - Doesn't matter if he does or doesn't

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - I'm okay with anything, I'll help him.

His religion - Prefer non religion

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - No

Does he have any hobbies? - Its okay if he doesn't have any

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? -

Someone who is passionate, funny (sense of humor a must), has all the values I want in life.

Your age:32
 

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His age - 21-35 or so. Big gap, but as long as he's able to act like a big kid sometimes :) I love Disneyworld :p

Nationality - doesn't matter as long as they speak fluent English lol

Hair color and length - color doesn't matter, prefer shorter hair. No down to the shoulders type stuff.

Eye color - Doesn't matter

Skin color - preferably white

Height? - taller than me, that's all

What kind of body type? - not slimmer than me, but not totally overweight. Just average. Doesn't have to have a 6 pack.

Clothing style? Whatever looks good on them and doesn't make them look homeless

What kind of personality? - shy, homebody, loves animals, sweet, all that good stuff

Is he virgin? - nope

Does he want a lot of sex? - once a day is good with me

Does he have a lot of friends? - a close group, but not a ton

Does he have social anxiety? - doesn't matter

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - depends on how serious

His religion - doesn't matter, as long as he doesn't force it on me

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - no smoking/drugs, can drink socially

Does he have any hobbies? - video games that I can play with him. Likes to go out to movies, bowling, etc

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF?
-no excessive porn, too many issues with that in the past. No close female 'friends'. And he preferably hates all the social networking stuff. Just really need someone loyal that's not going to cheat on me, whether it's physically, mentally, emotionally. Has to want to discuss boundaries and stick with them.

Your age-21
 

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His age - 40

Nationality - European

Hair color and length - doesn't matter

Eye color - does that matter????

Skin color - white

Height? - preferable 1,80m+

What kind of body type? - athletic

Clothing style? smart casual

What kind of personality? - psychologically healthy and stable ;)

Is he virgin? - I would be very surprised if he was

Does he have a lot of friends? - a few

Does he have social anxiety? - no

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - no

His religion - atheist

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - drink socially,none of the other

Does he have any hobbies? - probably
 

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His age - I guess around my age...not anyone way older or way younger.

Nationality - European :p Canadien...Australian :)

Hair color and length - Brown with mild shaggy hair

Eye color - I don't care

Skin color - Pale :p

Height? - Taller then me

What kind of body type? - Skinny :p

Clothing style? Casual

What kind of personality? - Kind of like mine. Laid back, reserved, is not a big partier, is cool.

Is he virgin? - Heh I don't care

Does he want a lot of sex? - Yes :p

Does he have a lot of friends? - I don't care how many friends. It will be cool if he wasn't so popular.

Does he have social anxiety? - That would be interesting..

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - Not the extreme kinds

His religion - Who cares

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? -Nope

Does he have any hobbies? - Sure

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? - I don't really have an ideal..just as long as he's cool and cute.

Your age: 21
 

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If men came with barcodes that would be cool. I want to know family history, medical history, mental tendencies, ability to pass a lie detector test with flying colors, able to produce boy or girl babies, level of testosterone and deterioration rate, travel experience, language ability, morals and values and knowledge of philosophy. Oh, and how capable is he in making money to sustain a household comfortably.
 

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If men came with barcodes that would be cool. I want to know family history, medical history, mental tendencies, ability to pass a lie detector test with flying colors, able to produce boy or girl babies, level of testosterone and deterioration rate, travel experience, language ability, morals and values and knowledge of philosophy. Oh, and how capable is he in making money to sustain a household comfortably.
What's the point of getting to know someone if people came with specifications like this? Takes the enjoyment out of dating. I don't want a robot. :no
 

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His age: 20-30

Nationality: Doesn't matter.

Hair color and length: I prefer dark hair. The length doesn't really matter, but I do have a thing for the buzz cut.

Eye/Skin color: Brown, blue, purple, black, doesn't really matter to me.

Height: 5'7+

What kind of body type?: Average?

Clothing style: Whatever he feels comfortable in.

What kind of personality?: Funny. A guy who can laugh at himself. Kind to his family. Organized. Laidback, but adventurous. Shy, but not too much so. Smart, but not a know-it-all. Someone with whom I could have a good time with while waiting for the bus.

Is he virgin?: It doesn't matter.

Does he want a lot of sex?: Hell yes.

Does he have a lot of friends?: Hopefully he has a tight group of friends.

Does he have social anxiety?: Preferably no.

Does he have any other mental illnesses?: No.

His religion: Atheist/Agnostic.

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs?: No drugs or cigarettes. Moderate drinker.

Does he have any hobbies?: Sure... um, he plays the piano? Likes going to live shows...

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF?: Well, since the guy thread asked whether or not their dream girl would have big boobs, I feel like I should point out that I would like my guy to have an average-sized penis or a tad bigger. :lol
I also don't see a facial hair question; it's a definite yes for me.

Your age: 22
 

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This is describe what we want in men :)

His age -21-25

Nationality - Australian/Indian/American

Hair color and length - light brown 5 inches

Eye color - Light brown or blue

Skin color- fair

Height? - 5feet 8 inches to 6 feet

What kind of body type? - strong n a little muscular

Clothing style? - like Tom Cruise

What kind of personality? - jolly,funny naughty mature kind sensitive

Is he virgin? - yeah should be

Does he want a lot of sex? - nope..spare me

Does he have a lot of friends? - yeah atleat 8

Does he have social anxiety? - no please..

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - no

His religion - not specific

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - no i dnt want..drinking occasionally will do

Does he have any hobbies? - dancing singing watching movies

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? - trustworthy n mature

Your age: 21
 

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Well I already have a boyfriend.. but I figured Id add my opinion anyways.

His age - 18-24

Nationality - White preferably, but it doesnt matter too much.

Hair color and length - blonde or black hair, medium length. not past the shoulders, not buzz cut. Although its not a deal breaker of course

Eye color - Green eyes are my favorite.. but it really doesnt matter.

Skin color - Dont really care

Height? - Must be taller than me.

What kind of body type? - A little extra weight. I dont like skinny guys, but not obese or anything. Anywhere in the middle.

Clothing style? Doesnt really matter. Although I guess my favorite would be kinda classy. Not expensive clothes.. but dress shirts are sexy. lol

What kind of personality? - Intelligent and a good sense of humor.

Is he virgin? - Nope.

Does he want a lot of sex? - Um.. not a lot. Just like normal? lol

Does he have a lot of friends? - No.. maybe one or two close friends.

Does he have social anxiety? - I dont know.. Ive never dated anyone with SA. I guess either way is okay with me.

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - No, but I would still date guys with other disorders. Maybe not extreme OCD though.. because thatd be hard to live with.

His religion - Must be agnostic or spiritual. I cant date anyone whos really serious into relgion.

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - No smoking. Drinking yes.

Does he have any hobbies? - Dont really care about hobbies.. as long as he doesnt make fun of me for collecting random things lol.

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? -

Your age: 18
 

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His age - Older than 22, Younger than 40

Nationality - probably anything

Hair color and length - brown, i like when it's longer than shoulder length, but it depends what the person looks like and what looks good on them. But I dislike hair covering the face/forehead (like emo hair) and if they had a hairstyle like that, i might cut their hair while they sleep, or something.

Eye color - I like all eye colors.

Skin color - Doesn't matter. As long as it's not fake tan or orange or anything unnatural.

Height? - Over 5'6, less than 7'

What kind of body type? - I prefer someone who weighs at least 20 lbs more than i do and is not skinny.

Clothing style? Loincloths.

What kind of personality? - Easy to be around and not constantly get annoyed or angry at. Not always trying to start a fight all the time. Someone who doesn't think they're better than everyone else. Someone who isn't clingy and doesn't feel the need to constantly be around you, and won't get jealous every time you are paying any attention to any person other than him. Someone who doesn't constantly turn everything you say into a sexual joke or something. Someone who doesn't talk to people about you behind your back.

Is he virgin? - Probably not.

Does he want a lot of sex? - Sure.

Does he have a lot of friends? - No.

Does he have social anxiety? - Doesn't matter. I wonder what that would be like.

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - Probably a little bit. Just as long as he's able to understand mine or willing to learn something about it, rather than being mean to me for it and refusing to try to understand anything about it. There are some mental illnesses that i would not want him to have though.

His religion - Something that doesn't require me to change mine. Someone who is not really, really religious.

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - Drugs only if for medical reasons, hopefully not smoking but if he has to smoke, do it while not around me, drinking is fine if it is not out of control and doesn't cause any problems.

Does he have any hobbies? - Yeah. I don't know what, but hopefully some of those things i could do with him and/or become more interested in. I prefer a lifestyle that is not completely sedentary.

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Your age: 24
 

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I'm making this very specific because I feel like it.

His age - 36

Nationality - American, English, Australian, or Canadian (would love to be on a nationalized healthcare plan! :) ).

Hair color and length - Brown, short.

Eye color - Green

Skin color - White

Height? - 6'2

What kind of body type? - I like big guys with some muscle. Broad shoulders. Nice arms.

Clothing style? Buys new clothes every so often, but doesn't try too hard.

What kind of personality? - Kind, funny, smart, somewhat reserved, polite, well mannered, and caring.

Is he virgin? - No.

Does he want a lot of sex? - He can't get enough of me. But doesn't beg or pout if I'm not in the mood.

Does he have a lot of friends? - No.

Does he have social anxiety? - Mild to moderate SA would be fine.

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - Preferably not.

His religion - Atheist/Agnostic/Not religious

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - Drinks socially/smokes weed for fun, but is smart about it and not reckless.

Does he have any hobbies? - Follows politics, news, and sports.

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? - Well endowed. Loves cats/is passionate about helping animals. Enjoys celebrating holidays (think pumpkin carving and Christmas light gazing). Watches smart television dramas and movies. Socially liberal. Realizes the world can be a terrible place but still sees the beauty in it.

Your age: 35
 

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So far, I would have a chance with 2 people on paper. Not very good odds since that's not including the real life meeting. :bah
 

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His age - Older than 22, Younger than 40

Nationality - probably anything

Hair color and length - brown, i like when it's longer than shoulder length, but it depends what the person looks like and what looks good on them. But I dislike hair covering the face/forehead (like emo hair) and if they had a hairstyle like that, i might cut their hair while they sleep, or something.

Eye color - I like all eye colors.

Skin color - Doesn't matter. As long as it's not fake tan or orange or anything unnatural.

Height? - Over 5'6, less than 7'

What kind of body type? - I prefer someone who weighs at least 20 lbs more than i do and is not skinny.

Clothing style? Loincloths.

What kind of personality? - Easy to be around and not constantly get annoyed or angry at. Not always trying to start a fight all the time. Someone who doesn't think they're better than everyone else. Someone who isn't clingy and doesn't feel the need to constantly be around you, and won't get jealous every time you are paying any attention to any person other than him. Someone who doesn't constantly turn everything you say into a sexual joke or something. Someone who doesn't talk to people about you behind your back.

Is he virgin? - Probably not.

Does he want a lot of sex? - Sure.

Does he have a lot of friends? - No.

Does he have social anxiety? - Doesn't matter. I wonder what that would be like.

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - Probably a little bit. Just as long as he's able to understand mine or willing to learn something about it, rather than being mean to me for it and refusing to try to understand anything about it. There are some mental illnesses that i would not want him to have though.

His religion - Something that doesn't require me to change mine. Someone who is not really, really religious.

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? - Drugs only if for medical reasons, hopefully not smoking but if he has to smoke, do it while not around me, drinking is fine if it is not out of control and doesn't cause any problems.

Does he have any hobbies? - Yeah. I don't know what, but hopefully some of those things i could do with him and/or become more interested in. I prefer a lifestyle that is not completely sedentary.

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? -

Your age: 24
Nice cute post as usual!
 

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I disapprove of this survey. Men get to pick boobsize and we get nothing? :no Y NO FUN FO ME?
 

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His age: 20-25

Nationality: As long as he can speak English. Being able to speak Spanish or Arabic would be nice too

Hair color and length - Dark & short

Eye color - Brown

Skin color - Brown

Height? - 5'8 or taller

What kind of body type? -A bit of muscle or average

Clothing style? : Casual

What kind of personality? - accepting, friendly, laidback, good sense of humor, somewhat reserved, mature, a bit nerdy

Is he virgin? - Don't care..just as long as if he hasn't done it with 3+ other girls before me. That's a turn off.

Does he want a lot of sex? - Sure.

Does he have a lot of friends? - Not too many

Does he have social anxiety? - Sure. It doesn't matter though

Does he have any other mental illnesses? - As long as if it's nothing drastic

His religion - Muslim

Does he smoke, drink or use drugs? -None of these.

Does he have any hobbies? - Whatever makes him happy. But, traveling and being into video games/technology is a must lol.

Anything else what you would like to mention about your ideal BF? - Having an accent would be great xD. But it's highly optional.Someone who's not to critical on what I cook for him..and someone who is NOT too greedy over money. And someone who is appreciative.

Your age:19
 

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Only men or significant other?
 
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