Okay. I am part of a gay youth group and as time goes on eventually you reach the age limit, however I still want to be involved as the group has helped me progress with my social anxiety(even if just a little). The only way to stay after I turn 21 is to become a facilitator. I am just finally starting to get over talking in front of people, but this may require a bit more and I am afraid, I may let someone down because of my anxiety. You think I should still go for it? or am I getting my self in to something a bit too deep too fast?