How can I help him? He wants to make money but he is too scared to actually apply. It is af he is standing on a diving board ready to jump but cannot do it yet. What would help you guys? I have his resume typed out, an application to Petland is ready with a nice letter saying why he wants a job there. It was his idea to try for a job at Petland. I left everyhting with him and told him, when you are ready you will do it. Now what??? I don't want to enable him to not do it but I don't want to put too much pressure on him. Suggestions? Ideas? What can I say to him??