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Okay, just remember not to seem too nonchalant but not too friendly either. When we are approached by guys in public, we usually positively respond to guys who seem mutually interested in what we are interested in but also interested in us. We don't trust guys who immediately try to flatter us with compliments because in most cases, that's what a creeper would do, only wanting to get it on. Just try to make small talk, joke about something going on there, point out interesting going ons, ask if they are enjoying themselves, where their from etc. The best women are those who are friendly back--don't try to talk to anyone who seems immediately annoyed by your talking to them because they are *****y anyway. Good luck, hope you meet many beautiful friendly women :boogie
 

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It may sound stupid (and horrifying) but making a fool of yourself actually works. Maybe it's only me that thinks that but seems to be something that girls I know find oddly appealling on guys too. Obviously don't go round like, doing banana-skin falls and whatnot. But if you do happen to stumble into someone or mess up your words, girls really like it when you can just laugh it off and roll your eyes at yourself. It comes across as charmingly dorkish rather than just ridiculous. And it makes you seem more casual and natural.

And try not to come across as if you're on the hunt for girls! My advice would be to just look for someone female to make friends with. It'll likely lead to something, and if not, you've a new friend anyway. Don't go right out there prowling around for dates! Be relaxed :)
 

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Maybe try asking for a Myspace... it sounds a bit less forward than a phone number and will allow you to further break the ice without that awkward first phone call.
 
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