I need advice from men with bpd on how to cope. I would like you to share your experiences with bpd, and the problems it has caused you. I'm a loner of course, I enjoy it the majority of the time, but I need to learn how to make and maintain friendships. Real friendships, real relationships. I guess my main problems is that I always feel exploited somehow, I think every nice compliment people direct my way is insincere. I feel like everybody who appears to like me, genuinely doesn't and are just being nice because they want something from me, or are trying to set me up for embarrassment. I'm ****ed up. I can't/ don't trust anyone. Seems like manipulative *******s like to try and befriend me all the time. I want them to **** off.