Good ideaSome constructive criticism, you over think and over analize like crazy. Half of these things you re freaking out about she probably didnt even notice. I also dont think you blew your last chance just yet. Next time you see her, go over to her and say hi, im sorry if i havent been very sociable latley but ive had a lot on my mind. Then ask what she has been up to and go from there. Start with small talk but then escalate to a more interesting topic. Too much small talk and she ll get bored with the conversation and that will be it. Good luck
I've found a great guy that fits well with everything I want and was showing interest in me but after we met, we hung out 2 days in a row and then he just stopped showing those little signs of interest...he hasn't initiated conversation with me in 3 weeks....it makes me feel like crap I can't stop thinking about it and how I had a great chance and blew it...I too, have gotten to the point where I'm forcing myself to face my fears...I worked on a cash register and waited on people recently cus this SA has just p*ssed me off for the last time. I forced myself to put in applications and am again tomorrow. i'm tired of wallowing in pity, regret and fear...not for me anymore. Besides...if you force your thoughts to focus in those situations, it isn't so bad.I'm going to keep trying no matter how many times I screw up, as I'm way too stubborn to just give up. Especially with this girl :blank I can't stop thinking about her over the past couple of weeks. I know it's not good to obsess over this but I feel like I have no control over it. It's not like I can just turn it off like a light switch. I've done this before in the past. It'll blow over sooner or later which should ease the situation.
Yeah, I told him happy bday on the 10th, he said thanks and then I tried to converse a little more and he didn't respond. Also IMed him once and no response so I pretty much give. He has been a tad depressed over not having a relationship cus he had one for a year and she broke up with him 7 months ago. But before we met in person he showed more interest which leads me to think it's just me. I'm hard to understand I think.As much as it sucks to go through this, it's comforting to know that others feel my pain. I wish you the best of luck! Don't give up; be persistent. If you haven't yet, try to extend yourself to him a little more. Maybe he thought you weren't into him for whatever reason. Don't be afraid to do and say things that let him know you like him. Guys like that, believe me.
It's amazing how much fear we let get in our heads over such little things like this. I've been trying to pinpoint my fear. What EXACTLY is it that I'm afraid of here? Rejection? Being ignored? Being humiliated? Been there, done that. I try to put into perspective the worst possible outcomes versus the amount of fear I'm letting consume me and it just isn't rational.