There's a big difference between someone who is asexual and someone who is not having sex. Are you getting most of your 'data' from this website? Because there's a reason that a lot of us are not having sex and it's certainly not asexuality. :lol
If you think that the same isn't true for women, then who's having sex with all these sexually-active women then? I don't think homosexuality has increased. lol
QFT.
Every now and then someone on this site tries to claim that heterosexual women are having exponentially more sex than heterosexual men. Which begs the question, if heterosexual men are not having as much sex, then who are the heterosexual women having all this sex with exactly...?
The numbers that you present OP were not exactly gleaned through scientific methods. Personal experience can only prove so much, as there are many factors that can cloud one's perception. Biases and such. People see what they expect or want to see. If you are taking your data from experience with other shy males for an example, that will obviously skew your results. Not because shy men are "undesirable" (as some here seem to want to believe) but because shy people have a hard time with interpersonal relationships in general. There are many shy women who struggle in that area as well. I've had plenty of female friends who have gone through sexual "droughts", struggled to find a partner, etc.
But I've noticed that when people make claims like this they aren't usually interested in the experiences of women. They'd rather make assumptions than actually listen to what we have to say. Not directing that towards you OP, but just something I've noticed in most "women have it easier" related threads. (and let's be real, that's basically what you're getting at with this topic, whether it was intentional or not)