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I want, I want, I want and I can talk up a pretty good sales pitch for what i want. I get given opportunities all the time and then what? My anxiety kicks in when i run into a snag, or if the reality of the situation isn't what i expected or hoped for. Since November I have been working closely with this accountant that is a genuine saint as far as associates go. He has passed me tons of work, and passed out praise and recommended me to alot of people. Ok so he is gone for a months holiday and before he left he drops this client with 5 very messy companies in my lap. I am overwhelmed and so contemplate what to do and how to tackle the various problems and backlog of work. Thats how i do anything - little pieces at a time. The thing is that the client is constantly pressuring me to have things done and the understanding was that i could get this done in no time. I need the accountants advise but he is away, and the girl that did the work before never completed alot of what she claimed to have done. I have done a large part of the project but am uncomfortable putting it altogether until he returns and yet i'm thinking when he returns, I'll have this all wrapped up. He is back in another week or so.

This client is evasive, and very abrupt to the point of being rude with me. I had to assert myself with him (which felt sooo good because i did it well) and so we got off on the wrong foot which also inhibited my production. He has calmed his tone down but still is evasive.

I just am never sure what to do in situations like this and think i'm gunna blow it as usual. Any advise?
 

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Well i took your advise and went shopping today and did some gardening. I start a contract tomorrow which goes for 2 weeks. Hopefully this long weekend i will be able to finish up as far as I can go and the pressure is off. I can't do anymore until this man cooperates with me! I still need information on many things. I guess the worst part of the anxiety is that i don't want to let this accountant down. He has been so good to me - so supportive and encouraging - a mentor. Its hard to find genuine good people I can't tell you how nice it feels - I don't want our great relationship tarnished by doing inadequate work. I've gone from starving to comfort because of him.

Anyway, it was good to have the time off - and get my mind on other things. The gardening might have been more enjoyable if i weren't being eaten alive.

thanks Hema
 
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