Thanks for the advice i'm going to try and follow that1. Learn to stop caring what other people think.
2. Learn to say, "No".
3. Take control of your life and don't let other peoples words, actions, or opinions of you influence your life. You know yourself better than anyone else and even if someone else judges you, it doesn't effect you.
When I mastered these three things, my life became a whole lot easier. It makes me laugh at how silly I was in the past.