I'm quiet around someone until my brain randomly deems them someone I can be comfortable with. There is no specific criteria, it just happens eventually (only with some people) and I become very personable and outgoing towards them. I just wish there wasn't that mental wall to climb.
This happened with my buddy's fiance (now his wife). She said something about me being quiet, and I said "well once I get to know you I probably won't be." I quickly realized she had already considered us to be decent friends and I felt like a dick for saying that.
This happened with my buddy's fiance (now his wife). She said something about me being quiet, and I said "well once I get to know you I probably won't be." I quickly realized she had already considered us to be decent friends and I felt like a dick for saying that.
