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its meaningless to try anymore, I can't make friends im too scared of social situations I hate that people have to surprise me like by kncking on my door randomly during the day. I hate that i wont answer if you do that.

also hate how its all about partying i dont want to go to a party itll be obvious i never have been to a party and its too much anxiety.

so i cant have any friends cus all anyone does is party and then people do crap like knock on my door randomly.

I wish I could find cool people who would just become friends with me but that's impossible.
 

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I'll leave but most likely it'll be from a permanent ban or other long ban that I'll just completely lose interest in this place.
 

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Might browse it less like I currently still browse another forum though not nearly like I once did. Of course the other site is very judgmental... most ignore me or don't like me.
 

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I know what your thinking, but it's not true know how.

Contrary wise, if it were so it would be, and if it would be it could be.

But is it ??? ..... It Ain't.

That's Logic, .... OK ...
`The sun was shining on the sea,
Shining with all his might:
He did his very best to make
The billows smooth and bright --
And this was odd, because it was
The middle of the night.

The moon was shining sulkily,
Because she thought the sun
Had got no business to be there
After the day was done --
"It's very rude of him," she said,
"To come and spoil the fun!"

The sea was wet as wet could be,
The sands were dry as dry.
You could not see a cloud, because
No cloud was in the sky:
No birds were flying over head --
There were no birds to fly.

The Walrus and the Carpenter
Were walking close at hand;
They wept like anything to see
Such quantities of sand:
"If this were only cleared away,"
They said, "it would be grand!"

"If seven maids with seven mops
Swept it for half a year,
Do you suppose," the Walrus said,
"That they could get it clear?"
"I doubt it," said the Carpenter,
And shed a bitter tear.

"O Oysters, come and walk with us!"
The Walrus did beseech.
"A pleasant walk, a pleasant talk,
Along the briny beach:
We cannot do with more than four,
To give a hand to each."

The eldest Oyster looked at him.
But never a word he said:
The eldest Oyster winked his eye,
And shook his heavy head --
Meaning to say he did not choose
To leave the oyster-bed.

But four young oysters hurried up,
All eager for the treat:
Their coats were brushed, their faces washed,
Their shoes were clean and neat --
And this was odd, because, you know,
They hadn't any feet.

Four other Oysters followed them,
And yet another four;
And thick and fast they came at last,
And more, and more, and more --
All hopping through the frothy waves,
And scrambling to the shore.

The Walrus and the Carpenter
Walked on a mile or so,
And then they rested on a rock
Conveniently low:
And all the little Oysters stood
And waited in a row.

"The time has come," the Walrus said,
"To talk of many things:
Of shoes -- and ships -- and sealing-wax --
Of cabbages -- and kings --
And why the sea is boiling hot --
And whether pigs have wings."

"But wait a bit," the Oysters cried,
"Before we have our chat;
For some of us are out of breath,
And all of us are fat!"
"No hurry!" said the Carpenter.
They thanked him much for that.

"A loaf of bread," the Walrus said,
"Is what we chiefly need:
Pepper and vinegar besides
Are very good indeed --
Now if you're ready Oysters dear,
We can begin to feed."

"But not on us!" the Oysters cried,
Turning a little blue,
"After such kindness, that would be
A dismal thing to do!"
"The night is fine," the Walrus said
"Do you admire the view?

"It was so kind of you to come!
And you are very nice!"
The Carpenter said nothing but
"Cut us another slice:
I wish you were not quite so deaf --
I've had to ask you twice!"

"It seems a shame," the Walrus said,
"To play them such a trick,
After we've brought them out so far,
And made them trot so quick!"
The Carpenter said nothing but
"The butter's spread too thick!"

"I weep for you," the Walrus said.
"I deeply sympathize."
With sobs and tears he sorted out
Those of the largest size.
Holding his pocket handkerchief
Before his streaming eyes.

"O Oysters," said the Carpenter.
"You've had a pleasant run!
Shall we be trotting home again?"
But answer came there none --
And that was scarcely odd, because
They'd eaten every one.'

Welcome to the Rabbit's hole...... Glad to see you....

OK ???

Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dumb
 

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There's no shame in living with a struggle. Not everything can simply be cured, but it doesn't mean there's no hope for a good life. I have to live with depression, not cure it.
 

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You need to meet different types of people.
I also strongly encourage you to actually take BREAK from this forum and the internet in general once in-awhile.

Go see a therapist if you havent. Join a club or a group that you have interest in. Get a hobby...etc
 

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Maybe not cured, but you could be better. Or at least try to live your version of what "better" is, who knows, maybe you'll get moments where you'll feel social if only for a second. And then you'll look back and be like, "man I was more social then" and you won't be reduced to an anti-social mess by your late 30s. hopefully, cross fingers. Besides, a lot of things contribute to social anxiety, the main factor being anxiety, so it's only logical to think, anxiety down, social up? Chin up. :)
 

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its meaningless to try anymore, I can't make friends im too scared of social situations I hate that people have to surprise me like by kncking on my door randomly during the day. I hate that i wont answer if you do that.

also hate how its all about partying i dont want to go to a party itll be obvious i never have been to a party and its too much anxiety.

so i cant have any friends cus all anyone does is party and then people do crap like knock on my door randomly.

I wish I could find cool people who would just become friends with me but that's impossible.
From what I can gather, social anxiety is something that most human beings experience at one point or another. You're right, there is no cure. You might sometimes feel shy, even if you get to a point where you're really confident. Confident people can feel this way, too. People who want to take medication can rock that slippery slope if they really want to. But for the rest of us who don't need a 'cure', we can practice being ourselves in social situations.

Think about it logically, you're normal. You might just have a very reactive personality.

Oh yeah, and when I make it out alive, I'm still going to post happy crap on here to give people hope. Screw the stigma, we can work together to gain insight and overcome anything.
 
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