The sad thing is I kind of invited myself to the party and I took the bus to get there but it is somewhere that I want to go to again. I invited myself there because it was an event posted on facebook and I decided to go because I am one of her friends on there. But at least I knew her a little bit. How can I go there again? I don't even know what kind of things to talk about with her. I tried to talk to her on facebook chat but she didn't respond and went offline about four minutes later. Should I try to talk to her again or could this mean she doesn't want to talk to me?